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Originally Posted by lucyrulesok
Is it more important to accept yourself for who you are, or to try and change the things abour yourself that you don't like?
Recently I've been feeling pretty down about myself (like every other boardie seems to be too - I thought summer was supposed to be a happy time?) and I don't know whether I should just work on being happy with the way I am, or try and change my life (this would have to be a pretty radical change).
When and how do you know that your life is 'wrong' or 'bad' as opposed to just having a lack of confidence in yourself and the things you do?
Sorry just rambling a bit here, but it would be good to get some other opinions, it's really hard to look at your own life objectively.
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I know how you're feeling.
There are so many things I want to change about myself right now that it's kind of ridiculous.
I'm thinking that I need to get out and experience things, and let myself change naturally. That sounds weird, but I hope you get what I mean? Rather than just up and changing yourself one day. I want to be myself more, not that I'm phony, just that I don't show myself a whole lot. I want to do things that make me happen rather than sticking with routine.
Anyways, now I'm rambling
