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Originally Posted by Cantankerous
i'm not going to hold myself in contempt and beat myself up for stupid mistakes i make or little things that i do. i'm human. i've got a right to make errors and everyone does it and worrying about it is a waste of time and causes a lot of harm and little good.
of course there's nothing wrong with correcting mistakes that you make, but it's okay to make them. and it's okay to improve upon yourself.
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That is true. The only hard thing (for me, personally) is to realise that fact truly for myself. I mean, I can talk about that and all, but it doesn't seem to work - I always keep judging myself, assessing every single step I take and it's killing me quite much.
It's ironic, but sometimes one need a shrink to learn how not to give a fuck.