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just look after yr mum in a low-key way.
come around and have coffee with her.
try to see if the topic comes out somehow.
Just listen, don't comment
be nice
she'll appreciated it and she may come up with more info about the suregry and its implications.
Either it's no big deal OR it is but they don't want to bother / scare you.
The only way to know is to stay around
don't ask though just be there.
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