my grandmother and grandfather never hid it from their kids (they grew it in their greenhouse), incl. my mom, and the kids grew up not even batting an eye at it, just thinking it was something adults did like drinking beer or smoking cigarettes. and my mom was that way with me and i think it's a good way to be. it's nothing to be ashamed of, however you do have to tell your kids that they shouldn't tell just anyone about it.
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