[gmku]

Every morning I do things to help my wife wake up and face the new day.

I make the coffee and pour her a cup with just the right amount of cream. I press her clothes if she needs something ironed. I work out with her during Gilad--I used to do my own routine at a different time until one morning I saw her working out and it seemed so lonely, and she tells me this has made a difference to her in keeping at it.

I also pack her lunch.

I don't do these things because she demands them but because I truly want things to be better for her.

Actually, though, I think she'd get pissed if I stopped doing any of this--especially making the coffee.