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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

that fits in if it is a loved one whose health you care about, but calling someone out for getting fat is not going to go well, it will be seen as mean and spiteful, and could cause unnecesary issues.

of course, hence

Originally Posted by SuchFriendsAreDangerous

be optimistic about. dont make it a weight or appearance issue, make it one of positive health. Dont criticize the faults, offer positive alternatives.