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Originally Posted by pbradley
Ha ha, can't have him all to yourself, can you. He has to be over compensating! No, you really do have a crush on him but you are smothering it to protect your feelings. "Player" keeps him at arms length because now his emotional inaccessibility is his prerogative.
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though I dont really feel like I need to have someone to myself in order to have a relationship, the second part of this is probably completely true.
The biggest reason I suggested over compensation was the openness of 'I'm not good at relationships' discussions we've had.. coupled with so many female friends?
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Having a lot of female friends or being comfortable around women does not necessarily mean that he is purposefully pursuing ladies.
Then again the guy you described sounds like a ponce to me so you may be right. You are a sucker for a player.
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pahaha. I likey poncey players

probably. its all too hard.