I concur with !@#$%.
First off, I tend to think leopards don't change their spots (who else groaned at that cliche?).
And not to sound like a bitch, but I'd be wary of someone who only bothers getting in touch with you when they're going through difficulties.
Finally, fucking when either one of you are vulnerable is always a bad idea. So yeah...don't.
Otherwise, you're doing the best you can do, which is be there for her. All she likely needed was a sympathetic ear, which you have been. As you know now yourself, venting can often be the most cathartic thing in times of crisis.
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