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Originally Posted by phoenix

My biggest fears are;

I attract mongoloid types, and that is not even an exaggeration.. If I am starting over, finding friends who are not going to steal the little amount of items I may have, or try to molest me, or knife me, is a big issue..

Not so good at making friendships quickly(except for jerks ^^). Im more of a mellow slow burner type. I grow on you. I'm assuming there is no time for this when faced with an entirely new place.

Lack of money. A lot of my friends are already out of jobs, and the prospect of being somewhere new, having no place to stay, and no money past a certain point if I dont find a job.... scares the fuck out of me... mostly because of the type of people I attract (see point one)


so... tips please

i've lived in 4 different countries and something like 6 or 7 cities within these so hell yeah. it's fun.

the things is though-- no matter how much you move, your mongoloid magnet goes with you. knife-wielding wackos will sense you as a potential victim from miles away. etcetera.

so while some environs are friendlier than others, changing yourself is the essential process of the recipe. of course most people rather go into deep denial than make an actual effort to know themselves.

either way best wishes.