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My two cents is that life is incredibly short. Staying in a situation that makes you unhappy, whether it be a relationship, a job, or anything really, wastes precious time.
I can understand and relate to the fear, but one day we'll all be dead. What you did with your time really won't matter at that point. Whether you lived a great life or blew it, had fun or suffered, it all gets reduced to zero at the end. Which you should see as freeing. You're free to do anything, to make any mistakes you want, and know that there is no real consequence. So ignore the fear and just do whatever you want, really. Comfort zones don't do much for us beyond holding us to routines, whether they're good routines or not.
First, break up with the dude. Do this tomorrow. Don't think it over and procrastinate. Sure, you love him, but the fact of the matter is you'll love several other people over your lifetime as well. If you still want to move, then move. At the very least it will offer new life experiences.
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