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Originally Posted by Better_Than_Deux
this is why i hate men.
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Well, I understand how that looks and yeah, from an outside perspective I would agree that I'm an asshole. But, I'm honest with my GF and she's honest with me. That's more than you'll get from A LOT of guys, even if they aren't cheating either. I'm honest in my life with people I care about, I may not ''love'' certain persons in the traditional sense of the word, but I understand where lies get you.
And you don't know my GF, she is a very non-traditional woman. She's quite a non-comformist and is more lax on her views than me.
AND you may not realize how completely uninterested in a relationship this third party woman is. She doesn't care about anything but herself and thats ok with me, really with most people. At least you know where you stand. I'm not her type, and I feel like this whole thing is a weird experiment to her.
AND I have had several other girlfriends that I truly cared about and one I loved. I could have cheated on both of these women but I didn't because of our relationship. That the strange part, I'm an honest person by nature and tend not to withold things from people, but i guess that why I'm posting in the STRANGEST THING GOING ON IN YOUR LIFE RIGHT NOW thread.