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Originally Posted by swa(y)
uh oh....that is a possiblity.
hopefully you havent already forgiven him for cheating more than once. if so, be careful and consider moving on to better things. yr a pretty/smart girl. there IS better out there.
cheating is about one of the worst things anyone can do to someone else. being cheated on is quite possibly one of the worst feelings ive ever personally experienced...just, KNOWING "something" is going on, then not being able to prove it...then finding out for sure, and considering the fact that yr other half has been sharing his/herself w/ someone else. it hurts. then theres that weird level of competition/comparision to the person he/she cheated on you with...its bad. no fun.
ask him and see how he responds. you have the right to.
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I've asked, but he says no.
He never said yes last time until I found out though.
A massive part of it is probably *my* problem for sticking around in the first place. But now I am where I am, and it is comfortable. The relationship is comfortable. I've asked, he says no. There is no point going off like a mental case crazy lady trying to prove otherwise. I'd feel like a complete bitch for leaving the relationship on the assumption only that he is doing something wrong.