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Originally Posted by infinitemusic
See, that's one of the problems with modern American marriage. You will never have a passionate spark for someone for 40 or 50 years, not the same way you do when you're first together, but it's the friendship and loyalty that makes a relationship last into unimaginable lengths of time. And it's much more meaningful and powerful, just in a different way. Your spark is going to fade gradually. That's just the way it is. Hopefully there will be a smoldering ember to keep your relationship going if it's important to you.
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OK, I try not to talk much online about my sex life, but I can say this:
I've been with my wife longer than you've been on this planet, and we are still totally hot for each other and the physical passion and compatibility that we have today is even stronger than it was when we were teenagers. It;s pretty amazing, if you want to know the truth, and not infrequent. It can happen. If you are well-matched, these things tend to grow and get better with time as you evolve as people, just as a lot of other aspects of your life together will grow and evolve. It's a matter of true compatibility. I got lucky.