Looking over the replies, people seem to want people with good taste but not with bad taste, confidence but not a lack of confidence, open-mindedness but not close-mindedness, a sense of humor and creativity but not "being boring," self-sufficiency but not clingy, good in bed but not bad in bed, etc, etc, etc.
Personally, I'm turned on by good stuff and turned off by the lack of good stuff, which is bad.
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