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to add to the complaint, my gf is a major introvert. she commutes 4+ hrs every day and is around people she is not comfortable with. so when she comes home, she really doesn't want our friends there. it doesn't work. whenever i want to invite a friend it becomes a major source of tension. having people come over to do things like watch a movie really doesn't work for me. i've had 3 friends over at a time before and she considers that to be a "party"...whereas that, for me, is pretty much nothing. i'm happiest when i'm around that many people 4 days a week or so. this is the first time we've lived together & in all my other living situatons i was able to have shitloads of people over whenever. it was even that case when i lived with my parents (my mom was well aware that i threw parties. she was cool with it as long as nothing got destroyed)....ugh.
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