[chicka]

As one who's experienced it I can say Phoenix has a good
bead on the situation. I got divorced after 4 years of dating and 20 years of marriage. Loved her dearly still
do but life goes on. Three kids so we had to stay ammicable. She's had a steady SO and me several flings
since but nothing serious. It was my drug addiction that
finally ended it. But in reality I didn't want to be married
as much as I thought I did. In retro spec I was tired of
her trying to change me. Her desire ti keep up with the
Jones etc.

Bottom line is something isn't working right. So admit
your faults to yourself and identify hers. It'll make it go
a whole lot easier. You've got to for the kid's sake. The
kid is the one that counts the most here and should not
be stuck in the middle of any nastiness. Fuck checkin out
the kid needs you!!!