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Originally Posted by Dead-Air

Yeah, it's weird I suppose. She said she still thinks we're soul mates and that is why she wants to leave. We have been rather absorbed by each other. The up side is that I've been feeling a lot more like "me" rather than half of "we" too lately. In fact, I've been so caught up in her trip and trying to make her be happy that I'd become a shell of myself most of the time.

Funny that telling everybody on here would be right at the same time we told her parents. I lead way too many double lives...

well, you're a man of many masks, so yeah.

perhaps, you know (perhaps), this can be a shake-up rather than a final thing, i mean, i don't know exactly what you guys are going through, but if shit that was festering finally pops, you know, pus comes out and shit (metaphorically), you can always take a 2nd look at making things work for the *after* perspective. in other words, as you come clean with your shit, your perspective changes and new situations become possible. i'm not saying "do this or that" but you'll be surprised at how things can change very quickly after such decisions are made.

i'd spew here my theories about marriage but i'll spare the board my unpopular rants. anyway, i hope however things work out they work out WELL and everyone of you is in a better place afterwards.