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Originally Posted by Nefeli
right.
i felt like apologizing, because i posted the very moment you started telling about whats been going on and i didnt even comment, because i didnt read your post. i dont know, it seemed afterwards impolite and indifferent thing to do.
i ve read, i think everything now and i would say things already said by other people here.
its good to see that you are in THE procedure of cutting emotional ties. they might come back to you, its too soon.
its painful (for her too i believe), but when things cant be other way, its better to break up/move on rather being in a situation where you dont feel good with yourself.
you child of course makes things complicate, but since you are in normal terms with your wife..and when time passes by, it will be easier. times does heal some things.
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Honestly, I wish more people had ignored me. Tonight I'm rather drunk and just played a show, and have a radio show tomorrow, and I'm not sure she won't flip out in a way where she throws herself towards me again. And how I'd react I couldn't say, so moving on is very much a mood for the moment, I fear. I kind of feel sorry for the new guy who will have to worry about this shit more than me.
Since everyone is going on about what they are listening to - I'm listening to Throbbing Gristle and it seems to make perfect sense. My friend Pete is on my couch, having played in the group, and he's digging it too. So it's not exactly anti-social. Though we probably won't dance or anything.