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Originally Posted by girlgun
the argument is fucking retarded. it's one thing to say you don't personally agree with it... that's fine. it's another to put down the whole thing.
and maybe people wouldn't have to fuck blow up dolls if they had a wife.
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wouldn't i put down the institution of marriage when it has historically been extremely oppressive? i'm glad that it works for you and others on this board. i know others who are happily married. but still, marriage does mean that you benefit from heterosexual privilege. i hope you recognize that.
sexuality is about desire and fantasy. there are plenty of monogamous people who still use sex toys/sex dolls/jack off to porn and it's not because they aren't in a healthy relationship. in fact, it's healthy to be able to give yrself pleasure. i'm in a monogamous healthy relationship w the person who i assume i'll be with for a good number of years to come and i still masturbate often. i have no shame in admitting that. it's part of what makes our relationship work.if i was into sex dolls, i might masturbate with sex dolls. sex dolls are a huge turn off for me though so i dont do that.