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Originally Posted by Dead-Air
I didn't just look. I'm a bit better looking than the average strip club customer, which tends to get quite a few bonuses. but yeah, McSex is not sex, and I'm not particularly guilty. especially in light of what the future brought. in the back of my fucked up mind, I'd always fantasized about being married to a sexually liberated stripper; so it was definitely a case of be careful what you wish for.
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ha! that happens to all of us-- thos fucking wishes.. if i could take a few back i would.
when you published the news that she was going back to stripping i thought i smelled a rat, but everyone cheered and i shut my mouth, though my bad news alarm went off pretty loud. eventually the zit popped, yes. humans are pretty predictable after all. really, as a species, we're not that peculiar.
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Originally Posted by Dead-Air
I can imagine her begging and pleading and promising, but I can't imagine her succeeding at this point. maybe if I saw a year of therapy for her go down first, but by the time that happened I'm sure we'd both have found other, probably more balanced, people. and that's not even saying it will happen.
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question is, do you want your kid part-time in her hands while she find that "probably more balanced" partner, or worse, if she finds one more unbalanced than you? im not trying to give you shit or increase your worries, i simply tend to often look at things in strategic terms and i see clouds of doom gathering in the horizon, unless something happens.
maybe this perception has to do more with the nature of internet conversations, but she looks pretty wack from where i'm sitting, and this comes from your descriptions. and the thing is that in real life i would tell you some of my own bullshit as you tell me some of yours but i tend to not spill my business on the internet and so it appears one-sided, like i'm just a critic on the sideline, whereas, no, no, i've had my fuckups, monster-sized ones, and so i'm not some theorist here. maybe some day over beers i'll confess my true crimes.
but anyway, back to the thing, i was saying, beware of her going off the deep end, cuz she might drag your kid into it (hi, meet your new cokehead daddy), and that's what you can't in any way want-- you probably know the court system better than her, but who the fuck needs legal nightmares?
now i don't know her or anything but do keep an eye on her sanity. you're a family for the rest of your lives whether you want it or not.