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Originally Posted by atsonicpark

Well, sorry you don't "think" so, or perhaps it just makes you uncomfortable to think about that, but it's true. Sure, it's not something most people would admit to, obviously, but there's a LARGE number of on-the-surface "normal" people that want to fuck children, fuck family members, fuck animals, eat shit, fuck dead bodies, rape people... but they don't do it. My best friend's mom was a psychiatrist and you wouldn't believe some of the shit her patients told her. Successful, wealthy, "normal" people. And who are we to judge? I don't think people can really control what turns them on, but they can control HOW THEY control it. If that makes sense. Ultimately, the stance most sex therapists take is: Anything you fantasize about is okay, as long as you don't do most of it in real life. So, it's okay to jerk off to it, just don't do it! Which is still kind of icky to think about, but it's really not our business anyway.

I agree with everything you say, except for the last part. It's what we all know anyway, but if you even SUSPECT somebody's getting weird with a kid, it IS our business. ...I knew you knew that...