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Originally Posted by !@#$%!
you can have your cake and eat it if you have power. you simultaneously belong (at the very center) and have freedom (to create rules). needs = met.
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Fly in the ointment. What about the experience of rich or wealthy or powerful people in seeking "true love" or even have in-depth relationships with other people in natural ways? Power doesn't buy or coerce authentic relationships or genuine belonging. If anything, quite the opposite no? Don't people tend to resent the person who bullies their way into a group or who abuse other peoples freedom?