Kissing

ALIEN ANAL · 04.03.2007, 12:57 PM

ok so discuss kissing but i didnt know where to ask this question

This girl i am sort of having a thing with likes to kiss girls and her friends when she is out but she doesnt kiss random guys like some other girls will.

I feel weird about this because the way i see it, a kiss is a kiss and it shouldnt matter if its a guy or a girl and i cant understand why you would kiss a girl or your friends like this. I dont have many friends so i have never been with a group of people that like to make out.

what do i do?

Jt · 04.03.2007, 01:01 PM

...? You're serious here?

I don't know, maybe Australian girls are traditionally more frigid, but... usually I'd say "big friggin' deal". The majority of "girl friends" I have are pretty comfortable having a sly kiss with girls at clubs from time to time or whatever - double standards, I know, but... I wouldn't think much of it.

It depends if it's a really regular thing, I suppose. I mean if she actively pursues girls to hook up with... well, yeah, I'd be concerned. If it's casual though, it's nothing out of the ordinary from my experience. It depends on how strongly you object, really, but they probably count for nothing, and I wouldn't be too concerned.

ALIEN ANAL · 04.03.2007, 01:06 PM

yeh i think its the double standard thing i just dont like. Im sure i sound like an idiot.

king_buzzo · 04.03.2007, 01:07 PM

Kissing? Is this some sort of weapon or sport? Make this clear to me...

Everyneurotic · 04.03.2007, 01:07 PM

what you should do is give me her phone number.

!@#$%! · 04.03.2007, 02:31 PM

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Originally Posted by ALIEN ANAL

ok so discuss kissing but i didnt know where to ask this question

This girl i am sort of having a thing with likes to kiss girls and her friends when she is out but she doesnt kiss random guys like some other girls will.

I feel weird about this because the way i see it, a kiss is a kiss and it shouldnt matter if its a guy or a girl and i cant understand why you would kiss a girl or your friends like this. I dont have many friends so i have never been with a group of people that like to make out.

what do i do?

i smell group sex...

MellySingsDoom · 04.03.2007, 02:58 PM

So that's what that funky smell was. Dammit, I thought my drains were playing up again.

Girls kissing girls is something that I suspect that many hetero men are into. Not that they'd admit it to their other halves, though.

Toilet & Bowels · 04.03.2007, 04:27 PM

it's just a phase a lot of girls go through, i guarantee you that she won't be doing that sort of thing in about 8 years. i highly doubt it will lead to anything like group sex either.

Norma J · 04.03.2007, 04:29 PM

Toilets and Bowels said it perfectly.

davenotdead · 04.04.2007, 05:41 AM

pictures please...so I can properly assess the situation.

ps-look how much the word 'assess' resembles the word 'asses'....haha

pps-this was also a play on words...and pictures of their asses may help as well...

pao-lino · 04.04.2007, 05:49 AM

how old are you?
usually in high school time there's the period girls are into lesbian kisses...
I remember some friends of mine when on holidays they used to kiss all the time also among people and that was embarassing for us guys...
do like this: ask a friend of yours male to kiss him in front of her, and see her reaction.
do you make love at least?
if it's not a sexual attraction, I'd think about borderline stuff.

screamingskull · 04.04.2007, 05:56 AM

yeah i went though this phase, it will pass. If you feel weird about it then talk to her about it. Although if you are only "sorta having a thing with" her and are not exclusive then you need to discuss being exclusive first.

SynthethicalY · 04.04.2007, 02:51 PM

When two people's lips tocuh one another.

LifeDistortion · 04.04.2007, 05:11 PM

Hmm, well you seem to suggest that this thing the two of you have is pretty casual, so if what the two of you have is casual and there's no monogomy with it, why should you feel bad that she goes around kissing other girls? At least its other girls and not guys. If I'm wrong and you believe what you have with her isn't casual, then you need to clairfy your point of view of the thing you two have going. I think the majority of girls who are straight have kissed/made out with other girls, just to try it, doesn't necessairly mean she's bi, just something to do for a goof or when you're tipsy/drunk.

04.03.2007, 12:57 PM	#1
ALIEN ANAL invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 5,461	ok so discuss kissing but i didnt know where to ask this question This girl i am sort of having a thing with likes to kiss girls and her friends when she is out but she doesnt kiss random guys like some other girls will. I feel weird about this because the way i see it, a kiss is a kiss and it shouldnt matter if its a guy or a girl and i cant understand why you would kiss a girl or your friends like this. I dont have many friends so i have never been with a group of people that like to make out. what do i do? __________________ www.instagram.com/alienanal
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04.03.2007, 01:01 PM	#2
Jt children of satan Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 345	...? You're serious here? I don't know, maybe Australian girls are traditionally more frigid, but... usually I'd say "big friggin' deal". The majority of "girl friends" I have are pretty comfortable having a sly kiss with girls at clubs from time to time or whatever - double standards, I know, but... I wouldn't think much of it. It depends if it's a really regular thing, I suppose. I mean if she actively pursues girls to hook up with... well, yeah, I'd be concerned. If it's casual though, it's nothing out of the ordinary from my experience. It depends on how strongly you object, really, but they probably count for nothing, and I wouldn't be too concerned. __________________ Album of the Week: Pylon Gyrate 1980
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04.03.2007, 01:06 PM	#3
ALIEN ANAL invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 5,461	yeh i think its the double standard thing i just dont like. Im sure i sound like an idiot. __________________ www.instagram.com/alienanal
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04.03.2007, 01:07 PM	#4
king_buzzo invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 11,110	Kissing? Is this some sort of weapon or sport? Make this clear to me...
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04.03.2007, 01:07 PM	#5
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	what you should do is give me her phone number. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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04.03.2007, 02:58 PM	#7
MellySingsDoom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,662	So that's what that funky smell was. Dammit, I thought my drains were playing up again. Girls kissing girls is something that I suspect that many hetero men are into. Not that they'd admit it to their other halves, though. __________________ Snow on Easter Sunday - Jesus Christ in reverse.
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04.03.2007, 04:27 PM	#8
Toilet & Bowels invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Northern Europe Posts: 12,264	it's just a phase a lot of girls go through, i guarantee you that she won't be doing that sort of thing in about 8 years. i highly doubt it will lead to anything like group sex either.
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04.03.2007, 04:29 PM	#9
Norma J invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Orstralia Posts: 4,917	Toilets and Bowels said it perfectly. __________________ I want girls with new-wave hair-doos
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04.04.2007, 05:41 AM	#10
davenotdead invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,784	pictures please...so I can properly assess the situation. ps-look how much the word 'assess' resembles the word 'asses'....haha pps-this was also a play on words...and pictures of their asses may help as well...
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04.04.2007, 05:49 AM	#11
pao-lino bad moon rising Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 200	how old are you? usually in high school time there's the period girls are into lesbian kisses... I remember some friends of mine when on holidays they used to kiss all the time also among people and that was embarassing for us guys... do like this: ask a friend of yours male to kiss him in front of her, and see her reaction. do you make love at least? if it's not a sexual attraction, I'd think about borderline stuff.
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04.04.2007, 05:56 AM	#12
screamingskull invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: england Posts: 5,580	yeah i went though this phase, it will pass. If you feel weird about it then talk to her about it. Although if you are only "sorta having a thing with" her and are not exclusive then you need to discuss being exclusive first.
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04.04.2007, 02:51 PM	#13
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	When two people's lips tocuh one another.
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04.04.2007, 05:11 PM	#14
LifeDistortion expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: CA Posts: 2,457	Hmm, well you seem to suggest that this thing the two of you have is pretty casual, so if what the two of you have is casual and there's no monogomy with it, why should you feel bad that she goes around kissing other girls? At least its other girls and not guys. If I'm wrong and you believe what you have with her isn't casual, then you need to clairfy your point of view of the thing you two have going. I think the majority of girls who are straight have kissed/made out with other girls, just to try it, doesn't necessairly mean she's bi, just something to do for a goof or when you're tipsy/drunk.
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