[the ikara cult]

I hate Christmas presents, but i like Christmas.
I would also like generic Girl-present ideas if anyone has them

[luxinterior]

Let's see, I get at least three different kinds of body lotion each Christmas from people who don't know what to get me (usually my step-family). I never use it. I also tend to get gift certificates to places that are nowhere near where I live, which is a pain. Also from my step-family.

[the ikara cult]

are these good presents in general?

[Toilet & Bowels]

there'a shop opposite the british museum that sells woolen hats, scarves and gloves etc and they come in really cool designs and colours, whenever i have a girlfriend at christmas i pick them up something from there, and it seems to be a success, although if they knew it was a thing i always do they might not be so happy about it.

[luxinterior]

Originally Posted by Toilet & Bowels

there'a shop opposite the british museum that sells woolen hats, scarves and gloves etc and they come in really cool designs and colours, whenever i have a girlfriend at christmas i pick them up something from there, and it seems to be a success, although if they knew it was a thing i always do they might not be so happy about it.

I think that would be a better gift than body lotion. I really don't think people realize just how much body lotion girls receive at Christmas.

When I use body lotion, it's the kind that is actually supposed to make your skin feel smoother, rather than just making it smell like melons or coconuts or whatever the hell else.

[luxinterior]

Originally Posted by the ikara cult

are these good presents in general?

Not really. If you know what a girl's favorite shop is, a gift certificate there is always nice, but don't just pick a shop for no reason. Body lotion and gift certificates to girly places are generally thoughtless presents.

I was once given the book Memoirs of a Geisha (step-family again) because the person knew I liked to read. And so picked a book out for me that I had no interest in reading. They made absolutely no effort to find out what books I would actually like to read.

Kind of like the time I received Forrest Gump as a gift. Just because I like movies. That was a terrible gift.

All I'm saying is, try to let go of that "Because you're a girl, I'm getting you this" notion if you are really wanting to get the person a good gift. Most of the gifts I receive at Christmas are those "Because I'm a girl" gifts that I never use.

[the ikara cult]

Originally Posted by luxinterior

Not really. If you know what a girl's favorite shop is, a gift certificate there is always nice, but don't just pick a shop for no reason. Body lotion and gift certificates to girly places are generally thoughtless presents.

I was once given the book Memoirs of a Geisha (step-family again) because the person knew I liked to read. And so picked a book out for me that I had no interest in reading. They made absolutely no effort to find out what books I would actually like to read.

Kind of like the time I received Forrest Gump as a gift. Just because I like movies. That was a terrible gift.

All I'm saying is, try to let go of that "Because you're a girl, I'm getting you this" notion if you are really wanting to get the person a good gift. Most of the gifts I receive at Christmas are those "Because I'm a girl" gifts that I never use.

Thats why people dont buy me CDs

[atsonicpark]

Let's see, I got my girlfriend a really hot brick red bra with black lace and black mesh, FINAL FANTASY FABLES: Chocobo's Tales, a Wii lunchbox, a Mario shirt, Excel Saga DVD box set, and Dragon Quest: Rocket Slime.

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by Toilet & Bowels

there'a shop opposite the british museum that sells woolen hats, scarves and gloves etc and they come in really cool designs and colours, whenever i have a girlfriend at christmas i pick them up something from there, and it seems to be a success, although if they knew it was a thing i always do they might not be so happy about it.

ha ha as soon as i started reading this i arrived to the same conclusion that you post and i imagined if they ever get together & compare notes you might have to go into hiding for some time.

[pantophobia]

pillows, blankets, quilts and that sort are good, especially hand made stuff in general, especially something that is utilitarian instead of something that is only ornate like art which is nice, but looking at a painting or sculpture won't keep them warm

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by the ikara cult

I would also like generic Girl-present ideas if anyone has them

how many girls are we talking about? if it's just one, and it's important, generic will only get you into deep shit. the more personal, the better.

if it's many women and you don't give a shit-- i can't help you in that department. ask a chick.

[SynthethicalY]

I hate christmas, but if you want present ideas, take her to go eat, and give her maybe a ring or a poster of her favorite band or something she likes but doesn't have.

[the ikara cult]

Originally Posted by !@#$%!

how many girls are we talking about? if it's just one, and it's important, generic will only get you into deep shit. the more personal, the better.

if it's many women and you don't give a shit-- i can't help you in that department. ask a chick.

No, its many im afraid.
And thanks for the tip Toilet and Bowels.
Also, if anyones ever stuck, can i reccommend Magazine subscriptions; requires zero imagination year on year

[cryptowonderdruginvogue]

I bought my ex a tiffany neckalce and she lost it

last time i ever get anyone anything nice

[PAULYBEE2656]

i hate christmas... what bollocks...

i love christmas and the whole build up. its great to see the kidz so happy and expectant... ive done most of my shopping, kids and parents sorted but i havent done or near decided on what to get for the most important gift ever... the wifes'

i traditionally leave it until after my birthday to decide so that gives me 4 more days!!!!!!!!

[floatingslowly]

Already meeting the parents??

You girls work fast!

Wishing you the best of luck! I know that if anyone can, you two can make it last!!

<34

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Now floaty, don't say things like that, you will make Derek jealous. cake and I are strictly mother-adopted daughter.

But it's true, I am going to spend the holiday with her and her family, and I am SO EXCITED!

I've never been allowed to meet parents before!

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by floatingslowly

Already meeting the parents??

You girls work fast!

Wishing you the best of luck! I know that if anyone can, you two can make it last!!

<34

there. you asked for it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cDHrsqre_TQ

[floatingslowly]

Wait....you guys aren't lesbians?

[floatingslowly]

Wait....you guys aren't lesbians?