PISSED

Cantankerous · 08.30.2007, 11:34 PM

not as in drunk, as in extremely angry
my grandmother is in the hospital seriously ill with an infection of the intestines and i got a call basically begging me to come see her and i was just fucking here for their god damn anniversary party which was not particularly enjoyable.
i made them all throw down for the plane ticket. no way would i be paying for that shit.
how are YOU?

total-trash · 08.30.2007, 11:35 PM

i'm doing quite well thanks. sorry bout that though

davenotdead · 08.30.2007, 11:37 PM

i have insomnia

Cantankerous · 08.31.2007, 12:01 AM

well i'm going to go space out and then go to bed because i'm tired of this shit and i don't want to think about it.

Everyneurotic · 08.31.2007, 12:03 AM

oh man, that sucks, cantanky.

at least you vented a little here.

davenotdead · 08.31.2007, 12:13 AM

good idea...spacing out is great....oh i wish i could sleep.

SynthethicalY · 08.31.2007, 01:14 AM

Sorry to hear that.

phoenix · 08.31.2007, 01:18 AM

yeh people dying is so inconvenient.

demonrail666 · 08.31.2007, 03:15 AM

it does suck, but you should go. just don't stay longer than you have to. a quick show yr face job is what's called for. callous but true.

Toilet & Bowels · 08.31.2007, 06:58 AM

if i could, i'd give you a pat on the head and some chocolate chip cookies to cheer you up.

king_buzzo · 08.31.2007, 07:03 AM

that sucks, I'm doing fine.

floatingslowly · 08.31.2007, 07:45 AM

my grandfather is dying in the hospital right now.

I told my mother "don't expect me to come or you'll be disappointed".

that's how it's done!

Rob Instigator · 08.31.2007, 09:10 AM

Hope your grandma recovers.

if people are trelling you to come see her it is because she is near her end cantank. don't be bitter about it, just go and pay your respects to the woman without whom you would not be born.

and eat somethin'!

Cantankerous · 08.31.2007, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by Rob Instigator

Hope your grandma recovers.

if people are trelling you to come see her it is because she is near her end cantank. don't be bitter about it, just go and pay your respects to the woman without whom you would not be born.

and eat somethin'!

i don't think she's gonna kick the bucket, but she's lost like 40 lbs because of some kind of intestinal infection and they can't figure out what it is exactly so they've been doing examinations and tests and all that business. she was in isolation for a while.

zedius · 08.31.2007, 09:46 PM

I wish I could have got to know my dead grandparents better, but I don't talk to my living ones enough anyway so I dunno.

I think it's best to just be yourself, if you're bored or annoyed try to find who else feels the same way, try to talk to your grandma about it. Be like "Grandma I sure do love you but this whole family deal bugs me. I'm sorry. I hope you feel better."

Try to talk honestly with her? Try to figure out what you'd really like to get out of the occasion.

I might be making assumptions here. Sorry if this is way off mark. Your grandma should know your concerned at the very least though. Even if you're not.

Cantankerous · 08.31.2007, 09:51 PM

well it's not like i want her to die. she's pretty seriously ill but her health has never been too good because she drinks like a gallon of diet soda a day which has caused her to have to have a double hip replacement and one knee replaced, she has terrible rheumatoid arthritis etc (as does my other grandmother, so i'm pretty fucked there.)

Cantankerous · 09.01.2007, 12:08 PM

oh and to top it all off now i'm sick. fucking nose/throat infection or something. can't breathe through my nose, thick green SPUTUM (grossest word ever save for moist) throat hurts etc.

davenotdead · 09.01.2007, 12:10 PM

gmku · 09.01.2007, 01:07 PM

Imagine how lonely it must feel to be sick and old. Go and provide a few moments of comfort, especially since your way is paid for.

!@#$%! · 09.01.2007, 03:00 PM

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Originally Posted by Cantankerous

not as in drunk, as in extremely angry
my grandmother is in the hospital seriously ill with an infection of the intestines and i got a call basically begging me to come see her and i was just fucking here for their god damn anniversary party which was not particularly enjoyable.
i made them all throw down for the plane ticket. no way would i be paying for that shit.
how are YOU?

wow that's stone fucking cold! why won't the old bat die already & stop inconveniencing everyone? you know, you could smother her with a pillow & get it over with these damn trips. i bet you could even turn her into some nice jerky. you know, for the trip back.

and i'm great, thanks.

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Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	not as in drunk, as in extremely angry my grandmother is in the hospital seriously ill with an infection of the intestines and i got a call basically begging me to come see her and i was just fucking here for their god damn anniversary party which was not particularly enjoyable. i made them all throw down for the plane ticket. no way would i be paying for that shit. how are YOU? __________________ RETIRED
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total-trash children of satan Join Date: Jul 2007 Posts: 295	i'm doing quite well thanks. sorry bout that though
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Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	well i'm going to go space out and then go to bed because i'm tired of this shit and i don't want to think about it. __________________ RETIRED
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demonrail666 invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 18,510	it does suck, but you should go. just don't stay longer than you have to. a quick show yr face job is what's called for. callous but true.
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Toilet & Bowels invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Northern Europe Posts: 12,282	if i could, i'd give you a pat on the head and some chocolate chip cookies to cheer you up.
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king_buzzo invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Posts: 11,110	that sucks, I'm doing fine.
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floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,165	my grandfather is dying in the hospital right now. I told my mother "don't expect me to come or you'll be disappointed". that's how it's done!
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Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,991	Hope your grandma recovers. if people are trelling you to come see her it is because she is near her end cantank. don't be bitter about it, just go and pay your respects to the woman without whom you would not be born. and eat somethin'! __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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zedius children of satan Join Date: Sep 2006 Location: Victoria, B.C. Posts: 260	I wish I could have got to know my dead grandparents better, but I don't talk to my living ones enough anyway so I dunno. I think it's best to just be yourself, if you're bored or annoyed try to find who else feels the same way, try to talk to your grandma about it. Be like "Grandma I sure do love you but this whole family deal bugs me. I'm sorry. I hope you feel better." Try to talk honestly with her? Try to figure out what you'd really like to get out of the occasion. I might be making assumptions here. Sorry if this is way off mark. Your grandma should know your concerned at the very least though. Even if you're not. __________________ Do you believe in raptors?
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Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	well it's not like i want her to die. she's pretty seriously ill but her health has never been too good because she drinks like a gallon of diet soda a day which has caused her to have to have a double hip replacement and one knee replaced, she has terrible rheumatoid arthritis etc (as does my other grandmother, so i'm pretty fucked there.) __________________ RETIRED
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Cantankerous invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: A RETIREMENT HOME Posts: 18,499	oh and to top it all off now i'm sick. fucking nose/throat infection or something. can't breathe through my nose, thick green SPUTUM (grossest word ever save for moist) throat hurts etc. __________________ RETIRED
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gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	Imagine how lonely it must feel to be sick and old. Go and provide a few moments of comfort, especially since your way is paid for. __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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