slow night then.

phoenix · 05.08.2009, 06:18 AM

is it wrong to trash people's possessions when they have wronged you?

greedrex · 05.08.2009, 07:10 AM

yes, it is wrong; however i did it once and that really did me good. I felt powerful.

To cut the story short, I had been going out with that biatch for about two years when i had to leave my native city for work. I had to go away and i'm talking about 500 kms away.
She chose to come with me , which was fair enough as nothing really tied her to that place and then she needed to get closer to Paris too for work.
In June we went together to look for a flat and found one; not very big but good enough to start with.
I moved there in august and she was supposed to join me there mid august. One day i went to get her and this is when she told me she wouldn't go cuz she had been seeing somebody else for a week behind me back (obviously).

When she told me , I somehow kept my self-control and said next to nothing and just left with dignity.

However half of her stuff was already up there in the new flat.

Now she was a student film maker and a year before i had bought her a supa dupa PC with all sorts of editing software she needed to do her fims (cuz i'm nice like that).
When I came back to my place, i decided to delete al her reels, rough shots, edited films, ALL HER FILMING STUFF. About two years worth of work. No external back up. No way to get them back.

I just formatted the PC.

A couple of weeks later, she came with a firend to get her stuff and i told her she couldn't get the PC back. She told me she could at least get her files back. I broke the news and she started crying, begging me to give to her. I kicked her out, literally. And threw the rest of her clothes and shit through the window for her to pick up miserably.
She went away and tried to contact me a few weeks, and then months later to tell me she was sorry and shit. I'm convinced she never thought i had really deleted her stuff.
But i did.

crazy.

Kuwa_Slayne · 05.08.2009, 07:39 AM

^Holy shit. That's hardcore. I've often plotted/daydreamed that kind of stuff, but I've never done it. I've destroyed my own stuff, though. I'm passive-aggressive methinks.

greedrex · 05.08.2009, 07:41 AM

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Originally Posted by Kuwa_Slayne

^Holy shit. That's hardcore.

Hardcore, yes. One of a few hardcore things i've done in my checkered past. My life is so quiet now. I finally made it. hahahaha

Kuwa_Slayne · 05.08.2009, 07:44 AM

Hardcore, yes. One of a few hardcore things i've done in my checkered past. My life is so quiet now. I finally made it. hahahaha[/quote]

Don't get me wrong, I wish I could pull shit off like that and feel no remorse. I guess that's why I'm not an alpha-male and I don't get laid nearly enough.

greedrex · 05.08.2009, 07:57 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kuwa_Slayne

I wish I could pull shit off like that and feel no remorse.

i never said i felt no remorse, however i still feel to this day she clearly deserved it. I'm totally over this story and i never really pondered over it. I just did it and i can tell you that i'm really the laid back dude per se.

Lurker · 05.08.2009, 09:53 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by greedrex

yes, it is wrong; however i did it once and that really did me good. I felt powerful.

To cut the story short, I had been going out with that biatch for about two years when i had to leave my native city for work. I had to go away and i'm talking about 500 kms away.
She chose to come with me , which was fair enough as nothing really tied her to that place and then she needed to get closer to Paris too for work.
In June we went together to look for a flat and found one; not very big but good enough to start with.
I moved there in august and she was supposed to join me there mid august. One day i went to get her and this is when she told me she wouldn't go cuz she had been seeing somebody else for a week behind me back (obviously).

When she told me , I somehow kept my self-control and said next to nothing and just left with dignity.

However half of her stuff was already up there in the new flat.

Now she was a student film maker and a year before i had bought her a supa dupa PC with all sorts of editing software she needed to do her fims (cuz i'm nice like that).
When I came back to my place, i decided to delete al her reels, rough shots, edited films, ALL HER FILMING STUFF. About two years worth of work. No external back up. No way to get them back.

I just formatted the PC.

A couple of weeks later, she came with a firend to get her stuff and i told her she couldn't get the PC back. She told me she could at least get her files back. I broke the news and she started crying, begging me to give to her. I kicked her out, literally. And threw the rest of her clothes and shit through the window for her to pick up miserably.
She went away and tried to contact me a few weeks, and then months later to tell me she was sorry and shit. I'm convinced she never thought i had really deleted her stuff.
But i did.

crazy.

I admire you Greedrex. She deserved that. Nothing excuses cheating, especially after what you did in arranging the move and everything. Maybe you should have just given her the PC without telling her the files weren't on it anymore.

I'm not going to vote because it completely depends on the situation.

static-harmony · 05.08.2009, 09:54 AM

I've never done it, but would not rule it out.

Lurker · 05.08.2009, 09:54 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by greedrex

i never said i felt no remorse, however i still feel to this day she clearly deserved it. I'm totally over this story and i never really pondered over it. I just did it and i can tell you that i'm really the laid back dude per se.

Maybe I'm similar. People think I'm really nice until they push me too far.

greedrex · 05.08.2009, 10:19 AM

^^ exactly.

floatingslowly · 05.08.2009, 10:32 AM

I'm not sure I could be brought to care enough.

let them have their trinkets.

NaiveMelody · 05.08.2009, 10:36 AM

Personally, I couldn't do it.

jon boy · 05.08.2009, 11:50 AM

i have thought about it and i did do things when i was younger but i am not sure i could do it now.

i found someones beer that had pissed me off one time and took that and refused to give it back to him, i also let down someones tyre but thats as far as it went.

Lurker · 05.08.2009, 11:57 AM

I once threw someone's egg out the window.

gmku · 05.08.2009, 01:20 PM

Jesus would say it's wrong. So would the Buddha. I think Sartre would agree too.

It's wrong, dude.

Sonic Youth 37 · 05.08.2009, 01:58 PM

No! Fuck that shit up!

demonrail666 · 05.08.2009, 02:07 PM

sounds like justice to me.

you did the right thing.

Lurker · 05.08.2009, 04:07 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by phoenix

is it wrong to trash people's possessions when they have wronged you?

What exactly are you thinking of doing phoenix?

phoenix · 05.08.2009, 09:46 PM

dunno exactly, I was just in a very angry place last night.

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yes, of course. that is naughty.	5	35.71%
no, it is the natural order of things.	7	50.00%
feels so good now, but quite regretable later...	6	42.86%
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05.08.2009, 06:18 AM	#1
phoenix invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: the future where it's hot and dark Posts: 5,926	is it wrong to trash people's possessions when they have wronged you? __________________ tiny and lost.
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05.08.2009, 07:10 AM	#2
greedrex invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in yr fotobukit Posts: 6,588	yes, it is wrong; however i did it once and that really did me good. I felt powerful. To cut the story short, I had been going out with that biatch for about two years when i had to leave my native city for work. I had to go away and i'm talking about 500 kms away. She chose to come with me , which was fair enough as nothing really tied her to that place and then she needed to get closer to Paris too for work. In June we went together to look for a flat and found one; not very big but good enough to start with. I moved there in august and she was supposed to join me there mid august. One day i went to get her and this is when she told me she wouldn't go cuz she had been seeing somebody else for a week behind me back (obviously). When she told me , I somehow kept my self-control and said next to nothing and just left with dignity. However half of her stuff was already up there in the new flat. Now she was a student film maker and a year before i had bought her a supa dupa PC with all sorts of editing software she needed to do her fims (cuz i'm nice like that). When I came back to my place, i decided to delete al her reels, rough shots, edited films, ALL HER FILMING STUFF. About two years worth of work. No external back up. No way to get them back. I just formatted the PC. A couple of weeks later, she came with a firend to get her stuff and i told her she couldn't get the PC back. She told me she could at least get her files back. I broke the news and she started crying, begging me to give to her. I kicked her out, literally. And threw the rest of her clothes and shit through the window for her to pick up miserably. She went away and tried to contact me a few weeks, and then months later to tell me she was sorry and shit. I'm convinced she never thought i had really deleted her stuff. But i did. crazy. __________________ Greed Recordings bandcamp ~The Rex~, stalkin' yr shit since 2008.
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05.08.2009, 07:39 AM	#3
Kuwa_Slayne bad moon rising Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Under Your Bed Posts: 186	^Holy shit. That's hardcore. I've often plotted/daydreamed that kind of stuff, but I've never done it. I've destroyed my own stuff, though. I'm passive-aggressive methinks. __________________ When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzee begging for its life.
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05.08.2009, 07:44 AM	#5
Kuwa_Slayne bad moon rising Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Under Your Bed Posts: 186	Hardcore, yes. One of a few hardcore things i've done in my checkered past. My life is so quiet now. I finally made it. hahahaha[/quote] Don't get me wrong, I wish I could pull shit off like that and feel no remorse. I guess that's why I'm not an alpha-male and I don't get laid nearly enough. __________________ When someone smiles at me, all I see is a chimpanzee begging for its life.
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05.08.2009, 09:54 AM	#8
static-harmony invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: outside L.A Posts: 5,156	I've never done it, but would not rule it out. __________________
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05.08.2009, 10:19 AM	#10
greedrex invito al cielo Join Date: Jan 2008 Location: in yr fotobukit Posts: 6,588	^^ exactly. __________________ Greed Recordings bandcamp ~The Rex~, stalkin' yr shit since 2008.
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05.08.2009, 10:32 AM	#11
floatingslowly invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 21,165	I'm not sure I could be brought to care enough. let them have their trinkets.
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05.08.2009, 10:36 AM	#12
NaiveMelody stalker Join Date: Apr 2009 Location: Montgomery, AL Posts: 477	Personally, I couldn't do it. __________________ I'm just an animal looking for a home and to share the same space for a minute or two.
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05.08.2009, 11:50 AM	#13
jon boy invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: psycho battery Posts: 12,161	i have thought about it and i did do things when i was younger but i am not sure i could do it now. i found someones beer that had pissed me off one time and took that and refused to give it back to him, i also let down someones tyre but thats as far as it went. __________________ Sarcasm[A] is stating the opposite of an intended meaning especially in order to sneeringly, slyly, jest or mock a person, situation or thing \|@ <------- Euphoric brain cell just moments before expiration V _ \ / _ PING <-------- moments later / \ http://media.tumblr.com/tumblr_ljhxq...isruo1_500.gif
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05.08.2009, 11:57 AM	#14
Lurker invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2006 Location: No. 10 Posts: 3,289	I once threw someone's egg out the window.
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05.08.2009, 01:20 PM	#15
gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	Jesus would say it's wrong. So would the Buddha. I think Sartre would agree too. It's wrong, dude. __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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05.08.2009, 01:58 PM	#16
Sonic Youth 37 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: if there is a bright spot in the universe, the farthest point from it Posts: 9,443	No! Fuck that shit up! __________________ "One: Where's the fife? and Two: Gimme the fife."
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05.08.2009, 02:07 PM	#17
demonrail666 invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 18,510	sounds like justice to me. you did the right thing.
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05.08.2009, 09:46 PM	#19
phoenix invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: the future where it's hot and dark Posts: 5,926	dunno exactly, I was just in a very angry place last night. __________________ tiny and lost.
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