[the ikara cult]

Hats off Homosexual

[SynthethicalY]

Originally Posted by Trasher02

You should buy a T-shirt that says:"Proud to be GAY!"

That just calls for a gay bashing.

[krastian]

Good for you, man.

[k-krack]

Right on, bro. Start being ridiculously obnoxious, and yr most of the gays in Sudbury!!!

[Alex's Trip]

So how long should I wait before bringing it up again? I'm sure they are thinking about it everyday, but they are acting like it never happened.

[SynthethicalY]

I have no idea, just bring in your boyfriend, or say you are going out on a date with a guy from school

[Alex's Trip]

Don't have a boyfriend...

[SynthethicalY]

Doesn't your school have one of those gay clubs. go there. But then again those might be the stereotypical queer.

[Alex's Trip]

Yeah, there is a meeting tomorrow I think...

I don't know if I want to go though...

[!@#$%!]

no need to get pushy i think, they might be in denial or maybe they are just trying to support you by not making a big deal out of it. just go along with your life and the next time the opportunity presents itself (like if your mom sez "hey alex, look at that mamacita, why dont you ask her out") then you remind her.

this could be alot of back & forth, but eventually you'll win, so my advice would be relax & get on with your life; the hardest part is probably over.

now if you wanna have a heart to heart w/ the parental units about how they've taken the news, maybe have one separately with each. "hey dad, can we talk...?" "sure dude..." etc.

parents have a way to react as a team sometimes that alienates them from their individual mind. my dad, for example, is a very relaxed dude, but with my mom around, he fell into this "authoritarian dad role" while we were growing up. i think he did this as a reaction to my mom's anxieties, to protect her somehow.

anyway, best wishes man.

[SynthethicalY]

Alex listen to him. He seems to be the one of the few who are wise.

[HaydenAsche]

Congradulations, man.

[Brett Robinson]

How do you know you're really gay... you're only 16?

[SynthethicalY]

Originally Posted by Brett Robinson

How do you know you're really gay... you're only 16?

How did you know you where straight at sixteen. That is such a stupid comment.

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by Brett Robinson

How do you know you're really gay... you're only 16?

how could he NOT know?

i was first in love with a girl when i was 3

at 13 my hormones were exploding and i was going nuts for all these girls, wow, and we trafficked in porn in school. i jerked off daily to pictures of tits.

at 15 i was so desperate for a woman i asked my friends to take me to the *cough* "ladies of the night". (this was in another country)

you don't think at 16 your hormones have fully taken possession of your brain, and you know what you want? can't you tell if you like the smell of a girl of the sweat of a dude?

it's all in the nose man, it's all in the nose.

it's like saying you gotta be 25 to know if you really like chocolate cake.

now i really gotta go but i dropped in just to say that.

[Alex's Trip]

Originally Posted by !@#$%!

how could he NOT know?

i was first in love with a girl when i was 3

at 13 my hormones were exploding and i was going nuts for all these girls, wow, and we trafficked in porn in school. i jerked off daily to pictures of tits.

at 15 i was so desperate for a woman i asked my friends to take me to the *cough* "ladies of the night". (this was in another country)

you don't think at 16 your hormones have fully taken possession of your brain, and you know what you want? can't you tell if you like the smell of a girl of the sweat of a dude?

it's all in the nose man, it's all in the nose.

it's like saying you gotta be 25 to know if you really like chocolate cake.

now i really gotta go but i dropped in just to say that.

You put that much better than I could have...

[Brett Robinson]

Originally Posted by SynthethicalY

How did you know you where straight at sixteen. That is such a stupid comment.

I was just asking a question, not making a comment, why are you taking so much offense?

The person who made this thread said himself: "And I guess I have to agree with her to some extent. I am always questioning myself because I haven't fully accepted it yet."

It's not like I said "were you sexually abused as a child?"

I've just noticed an ever-increasing trend amongst teenagers toward bisexuality, and I think it's entirely socially engendered. Kids are exposed to so much junk media like television, and even network TV is rife with gay innuendo that did not exist 15 years ago. Girl-on-girl action is wayyy more acceptable socially than it was when I was in high school in the 90's.

For instance: NIRVANA's first appearance on SNL in January 1992- Cobain french-kissed Novoselic on live TV, but the station cut this from future airings and called the whole cast back to re-film the end credits for repeat broadcasts. Nowadays, every single skit of SNL is filled with gay jokes. How far we've come in 15 years...

I'm not gonna sit here and say he ISN'T gay, I'm just curious how he knows.

I have no problem with people doing whatever they want to do sexually, but I also think the mainstream media is a terrible and SUBLIMINAL influence on impressionable minds. At 16, you're hardly an adult. Sure, I was into girls at that age, but maybe I just hadn't met the right guy (and still haven't)?

[Cantankerous]

Originally Posted by Brett Robinson

I'm not gonna sit here and say he ISN'T gay, I'm just curious how he knows.

that's like saying "how do you know you're not gay if you've never tried it?"

"how do you know you don't like eating shards of glass if you've never tried it?"

sometimes you just know.

[SynthethicalY]

Originally Posted by Brett Robinson

I was just asking a question, not making a comment, why are you taking so much offense?

The person who made this thread said himself: "And I guess I have to agree with her to some extent. I am always questioning myself because I haven't fully accepted it yet."

It's not like I said "were you sexually abused as a child?"

I've just noticed an ever-increasing trend amongst teenagers toward bisexuality, and I think it's entirely socially engendered. Kids are exposed to so much junk media like television, and even network TV is rife with gay innuendo that did not exist 15 years ago. Girl-on-girl action is wayyy more acceptable socially than it was when I was in high school in the 90's.

For instance: NIRVANA's first appearance on SNL in January 1992- Cobain french-kissed Novoselic on live TV, but the station cut this from future airings and called the whole cast back to re-film the end credits for repeat broadcasts. Nowadays, every single skit of SNL is filled with gay jokes. How far we've come in 15 years...

I'm not gonna sit here and say he ISN'T gay, I'm just curious how he knows.

I have no problem with people doing whatever they want to do sexually, but I also think the mainstream media is a terrible and SUBLIMINAL influence on impressionable minds. At 16, you're hardly an adult. Sure, I was into girls at that age, but maybe I just hadn't met the right guy (and still haven't)?

That's a load of bullshit. The media has a lot of gay jokes yes, but they mostly ridicule them. And why girl-on-girl action is better, because the media knows it will excite straight homophobic men.

[Alex's Trip]

Originally Posted by Brett Robinson

The person who made this thread said himself: "And I guess I have to agree with her to some extent. I am always questioning myself because I haven't fully accepted it yet."

By that I meant I was still clinging to hope that I may have been straight. I wasn't doubting my sexuality. I ask that question as a feeble attempt of comforting myself that it is a possibility that I am still straight. But I definitely consider myself to be gay.

I can't tell you how I know. It is just an innate thing. I wasn't interested in guys or girls until 7th grade, and WHAM! I was attracted to guys.