[pbradley]

Call her tonight to watch the election results at a bar.

[phoenix]

have you called her yet?!

[Sonic Youth 37]

Originally Posted by pbradley

Call her tonight to watch the election results at a bar.

Great idea if you're both of the same political persuasion. Horrible idea if the opposite.

[uhler]

i'm calling her tomorrow when i wake up. i did have to work tonight and we were kind of busy cause of the elections.

[uhler]

Originally Posted by Sonic Youth 37

Great idea if you're both of the same political persuasion. Horrible idea if the opposite.

by the looks of things i think she's pretty liberal, but i could be wrong.

[davenotdead]

you never know dude. better to play safe than stupidly ruin it before the nookie.

also, politicians = not hot (cept fpr Palin, but tonight obv. isnt about her)

[uhler]

so i called her. she didn't answer, but i nervously left her a voicemail. i probably sounded like a moron. so far she hasn't called back.

[!@#$%!]

Originally Posted by uhler

so i called her. she didn't answer, but i nervously left her a voicemail. i probably sounded like a moron. so far she hasn't called back.

eh. sorry mang. shit happens. at least it's not like you two fucked before one of you realized it was a mistake.

hm the thing is though, seriously now, the phone number thing is kind of a numbers game.

Originally Posted by uhler

i never really asked for a girls number before.

if 25% work out it's a good average. the other 75%-- just move on.

then again man, she may have been busy and she'll call you the next 5 minutes.

best wishes.

[uhler]

Originally Posted by !@#$%!

eh. sorry mang. shit happens. at least it's not like you two fucked before one of you realized it was a mistake.

hm the thing is though, seriously now, the phone number thing is kind of a numbers game.



if 25% work out it's a good average. the other 75%-- just move on.

then again man, she may have been busy and she'll call you the next 5 minutes.

best wishes.

thanks. well if nothing happens it's fine. at least i tried and didn't let anything pass me by.

i'm just so used to girls calling me first that, in my 26 years of life, i never had to make the first move when it came to asking someone out.

[deflinus]

just make sure you have your credit card number ready when you call

[gmku]

Originally Posted by uhler

so i called her. she didn't answer, but i nervously left her a voicemail. i probably sounded like a moron. so far she hasn't called back.

Damn, I wish I'd caught this thread in time to give you some advice.

You are ALWAYS in control. NEVER let a women believe she's intimidated you. It helps to have a male role model whom you think is calm and cool, and when you call, imagine you are he. Say, James Bond, for instance. Embody James Bond and think to yourself, What would James Bond do and say? Think about this until you are convinced you ARE James Bond. Then make the call. The results will amaze you, I promise.

[davenotdead]

what gmku said.

i've found that it helps to grow the most bitchin porno stache you can. my confidence is fucking incredible when i do

[GeneticKiss]

Originally Posted by uhler

i'm just so used to girls calling me first that, in my 26 years of life, i never had to make the first move when it came to asking someone out.

I HATE YOU FOR THAT

[Inhuman]

Originally Posted by uhler

so i called her. she didn't answer, but i nervously left her a voicemail. i probably sounded like a moron. so far she hasn't called back.

Try and be confident in everything you do and don't say 'I probably sounded like a moron'. That's what makes you seem like a moron. Only 15% of conversation is about content of what you say, the other 85% is body language and tonality. Be as casual as you can and try not to be self conscious when you meet her, but be yourself. When you call her again tomorrow, be confident dude. Ladies almost always dig that shit unless they have an anti-confidence fetish. If you have much spare time, look into reading about NLP, it's interesting to learn how to manipulate the brain.

[Sonic Youth 37]

^^^Tru fax.

[uhler]

Originally Posted by Inhuman

Try and be confident in everything you do and don't say 'I probably sounded like a moron'. That's what makes you seem like a moron. Only 15% of conversation is about content of what you say, the other 85% is body language and tonality. Be as casual as you can and try not to be self conscious when you meet her, but be yourself. When you call her again tomorrow, be confident dude. Ladies almost always dig that shit unless they have an anti-confidence fetish. If you have much spare time, look into reading about NLP, it's interesting to learn how to manipulate the brain.

should i call her tomorrow if she doesn't call back? i don't want to seem like i'm going to constantly call her until she picks up.

[Inhuman]

Originally Posted by uhler

should i call her tomorrow if she doesn't call back? i don't want to seem like i'm going to constantly call her until she picks up.

Wait 1 or 2 days before calling again to be on the safe side, I was confused by the time difference on the board. She allowed you to buy her a drink and she allowed you to have her number, so she's definitely interested so no need to make her wait any longer than that. Oh, and Gmku's advice is crucial! Good luck!

[uhler]

Originally Posted by Inhuman

Wait 1 or 2 days before calling again to be on the safe side, I was confused by the time difference on the board. She allowed you to buy her a drink and she allowed you to have her number, so she's definitely interested so no need to make her wait any longer than that. Oh, and Gmku's advice is crucial! Good luck!

thanks. i'll try to call her again on friday or saturday if she doesn't call me back.

[uhler]

Originally Posted by davenotdead

what gmku said.

i've found that it helps to grow the most bitchin porno stache you can. my confidence is fucking incredible when i do

but then i'll look like everyone in williamsburg.

[davenotdead]

add some personal flair to it.

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