[nicfit]

he who?

[floatingslowly]

Originally Posted by Nefeli

it is too long.

.

[Sheriff Rhys Chatham]

Pathetic.

[flophousefloozie]

Originally Posted by DeadDiscoDildo

floozie will you be my online wife? or, one of them.

I will think on it. In the meantime, you should consider what you have to cyber-offer me, in return for my cyber-hand in cyber-marriage.

[Rob Instigator]

Originally Posted by floatingslowly

yr my concubine. you scrape my mind. just like a scalpula. AAAAHHHH aaaaaAHHHAAAaaaaaahHH uh uhuh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh uh AAAAAAAAAHHHHHHH yr like a dracula UH UH uh aaaaaaaaahhhhhh you suck up blood. yr like a porcupine. UH UH AHHHHHHHH this is my scalpula.

HAHAHAHHAHAHAHHAHAH!!!!!!!!

[█████████]

geek shit | stupid poop

x - cyber-marriage

[greedrex]

anus poo
ha yeah
let's get it on

[DeadDiscoDildo]

Originally Posted by Nefeli

is it ok that i only read deaddiscodildo story and not Yours? it is too long. i ll read it on monday, for give me?

What? people read what I post?

leave me out of this!

[DeadDiscoDildo]

Originally Posted by flophousefloozie

I will think on it. In the meantime, you should consider what you have to cyber-offer me, in return for my cyber-hand in cyber-marriage.

Well, I'm entertaining as hell and I don't even need to sell myself, if you don't know by now, you'll never know.

[floatingslowly]

Originally Posted by DeadDiscoDildo

if you don't know by now, you'll never know.

-10 pts: Simply Red

[phoenix]

disclaimer; I don't judge, and every single relationship is different but imho;


cheating in my mind is defined very easily by two simple points, and can be both or just one.

its something that your partner does not like, and hurts them emotionally

it is something that if you are doing it, and your partner does not know about it, that it is something that you DONT want to tell them, because you either fear them telling you to stop, or what they'll say or that they'll leave.



so, its something that involves guilt on the doer, AND OR hurt in the partner who is not participating.

It doesnt matter how when or where. That is the definition to me. I dont really understand how anyone could think otherwise, but again, every single person and relationship out there is different and thats what makes people individuals.



I've been hurt so many times by so many people by things which don't involve anything physical or which might not affect someone else who isnt in the same situation. The fact that it has hurt, means to me, that it is cheating someone out of either the option to opt out of the relationship based on all the FACTS, or cheating them out of the feeling of security in a relationship that comes with being monogomous or faithful or even just not having an open trust because you both agree to whatever you both get into. If both parties are happy to sleep with other people or see other people or have extra relationships in second life, then its fine. If it hurts one of the people in the relationship, then its cheating. No matter how geeky it might be or no matter how much the OTHER person who is doing it might not think it is cheating.



I know people IRL who have met over WOW, used to live in seperate countries and are now married living together... they have a pretty awesome relationship, and are happy. So.. internet doesnt mean its not real or you can't meet someone who you get along with just the same as you can IRL.. it is real life.. just a little differently laid out. I also know of at least three other couples that I can think of online who have also met online and moved from a different country to get married and live together.

I think in this situation in the article, the guy is an asshole for abusing the same method he used to meet his wife, and believe that she wouldnt think it meant anything.. but the woman is also probably a little blind to not have asked before hand if this is a big part of his life that he doesnt want to part with (internet socialising and dating whatev.)

I think its cheating. But more because they werent honest with each other and didn't discuss it or give the other person the choice if they wanted to have their relationship that way.


so yes. my 2 cents.

[DeadDiscoDildo]

Originally Posted by floatingslowly

-10 pts: Simply Red

What?

[cars_willkillyou]

Originally Posted by DeadDiscoDildo

Well, I'm entertaining as hell and I don't even need to sell myself, if you don't know by now, you'll never know.

and if ya dont know, now ya know. nigga.

[cars_willkillyou]

i think cyber cheating is legitimate. I dont confine the definition of cheating to physical activity. In fact, I would rather have my significant other sleep with another person than to develop a deep, emotional relationship with someone. And over the internet, a predominately text-based relationship exists. Words speak louder than actions.

At least in my perception of life.

[DeadDiscoDildo]

^^so how long have you been cybering sway?

[phoenix]

Originally Posted by swa(y)

legitimate...yes.

lame...yes.

anyone over the age of say...22...that needs to get action online. well, i feel sorry for them. whenever ive felt the need to cheat to a point to where it might actually happen, i would just break up with whoever i was currently dating.


id think ones love life must be boring if they are trying to get action online as opposed to their real-life partner.

So you think online dating is lame even if you're single?

[ALIEN ANAL]

phoenix
i tried to rep you before for your long post you wrote
i agree with most

[phoenix]

thanks

[phoenix]

just curious, couldnt figure out if you were anti internet dating or just anti internet dating while .. in a relationship.

I've met...

7? people from teh internets? I guess thats not many. 3 of those were potential romance interests. There were about 20 more that I would have met if I didnt end up hating them over internet drama.

[GeneticKiss]

I've chatted with girls over the internet, with intentions of possibly dating them...

Unfortunately I have yet to meet one of them in the real world...