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Satan · 10.19.2009, 09:19 PM

i know but

no one has ever had so much power over me, i feel weak for once in my life

krastian · 10.19.2009, 09:21 PM

I think you are just intoxicated by him. Again, if I were you, I'd try and find out what he wants and tell him what you want. End all this madness....especially if it's been like this for a while.

!@#$%! · 10.19.2009, 09:23 PM

i wouldn't push it. not yet.

it's nice to torture women!

no, seriously, there are 2 reasons why he might make himself scarce

1) he wants you in a bad way and doesn't want to appear needy/ wants to stay in control/ wants to make sure you don't fuck him over-- best way to spook away women is to call them 50 times a day

2) he's really an aloof asshole who fucks and runs

either way, don't push it. if he's an ashole, don't throw yourself at him-- if he likes you, it's a sweet horny fight to see who loses control & drools first :P

Satan · 10.19.2009, 09:23 PM

intoxicated is the word. completely infatuated. i'd say its been this way for about a month.

!@#$%!

i would love it if he called me 50 times a day. i havent been so happy in a long time.
i think it must be option #1 because he's definitely NOT an asshole

krastian · 10.19.2009, 09:26 PM

Hmm, a month or so has been enough time to figure out what the hell is going on, I think.

Going by !@#$! ideas, I'd say it's not a number one situation....unless he is just evil. If so, then he sucks, imo.

!@#$%! · 10.19.2009, 09:29 PM

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Originally Posted by Satan

intoxicated is the word. completely infatuated. i'd say its been this way for about a month.

!@#$%!

i would love it if he called me 50 times a day. i havent been so happy in a long time.
i think it must be option #1 because he's definitely NOT an asshole

ok. when i *really* wanted to go out with madame !@#$%! i liked her fucken cheekbones a lot so i was afraid to drool. so i go and sit next to her @ a table & talk to everyone & make jokes & rule that fucken table but i don't talk to her. cuz i didn't wanna drool.

the funny thing tho is that you guys spend a weekend fucking first, THEN go thru all the mating rituals-- kinda hilarious.

so he needs reassurance? don't fuck the ex.

JOO KRASSSEEEE

!@#$%! · 10.19.2009, 09:30 PM

also, he may fear being the rebound guy

Satan · 10.19.2009, 09:34 PM

maybe more like 3 weeks. i will trust !@#$%!'s advice.

see, we're very good friends and we have been for a long time it's just recently that we've been uh, getting it on
!@#$%! knows what he's talking about, he's a scorpion too

i know he's not an asshole. i'm an incredibly good judge of character and i have crazy intuition to the point of almost being psychic and i can just tell that he likes me a whole lot which is why i don't understand this behavior. i guess he's trying to control himself, i'm trying to do the same thing and i just wanna pour it all out on the fucking table but i can't because i don't wanna look like an ass.

!@#$%! · 10.19.2009, 09:37 PM

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Originally Posted by Satan

i have crazy intuition to the point of almost being psychic and i can just tell that he likes me a whole lot which is why i don't understand this behavior

maybe he's like that too & can smell the ex around yr box

srsly, don't make him the fucken rebound fool, ESPECIALLY if he's been your friend for long

also, if he knows you post here (bless anonimity on the interwebs) he might be up on yr shenanigans

so yeah if he likes you a whole fuckload what he probably needs is reassurance he won't be fucked over or you'll call him someone else's name while climaxing.

one does not like to lose one's head when in doubt, but then again sometimes it can't be helped.

and then he might wanna be sure sure sure sure sure sure sure. a little torture goes a long way.

Satan · 10.19.2009, 09:42 PM

i only felt like it was ok to sleep with exbf one last time because me and this one aren't 'officially' dating (plus we never got our parting hatefuck, we love each other but we are not in love with each other anymore so this was strictly sex) and i'm not sure if he's seeing other girls or what and i do feel a bit of guilt about it.
but i would never ever ever do anything to fuck him over and i think he must just be being cautious until he realizes that.

thanks you guys. i feel a little bit better. but I STILL WISH HE WOULD FUCKING CALL ME.

ps i am 100% sure he is not up on my shenanigans.

krastian · 10.19.2009, 09:43 PM

I can see that. I just don't get the whole "playing games" thing in fear of like.....being the first one to cave in and tell the other how they feel, I guess?

For me, I like to know what is going on, but yes, you will know when the time is right to put the chips on the table.....so, far he doesn't sound like a guy that is going to initiate the "I sweat you, babe!!" talk. Of course, I don't know the dude or his history.

3 weeks hasn't really been a long time, true.

kill and destroy etc.

Satan · 10.19.2009, 09:45 PM

i don't understand it either but it seems to be human nature. no one wants to look weak. the irony of it is that in trying not to appear weak i am actually reinforcing my own weakness by being a PUSSY and not saying it.

!@#$%! · 10.19.2009, 09:55 PM

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Originally Posted by krastian

I can see that. I just don't get the whole "playing games" thing in fear of like.....being the first one to cave in and tell the other how they feel, I guess?

sex is war!

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Originally Posted by krastian

kill and destroy etc.

ha ha-- exactly!

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it's not playing games, not faking it-- it's setting up the proper dynamic for the situation.

best wishes & enjoy the demented dance

im out for now eh

krastian · 10.19.2009, 09:56 PM

Right.

Like you said, if he's not an asshole, then he'll appreciate your affections and not think you are a cheeseball.

It's not like he's going to be like, "Wait, wait. You like me? What the fuck! You make me sick! You didn't think I actually wanted to date you, did you? This is seriously fucked up, I'm leaving."

krastian · 10.19.2009, 09:58 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

sex is war

I don't know man, that shit is too intense for me after a while....the war that is!!

Night.

Satan · 10.19.2009, 10:02 PM

now that ive thought about it and heard what y'all had to say, i think he must be thinking exactly what i'm thinking and now it's just a matter of time before we're joined at the hip and making everyone sick

Satan · 10.19.2009, 11:42 PM

this is making me fucking miserable

Sonic Youth 37 · 10.19.2009, 11:44 PM

Target hasn't called like they said they would and I know I passed my drug test. I need money dammit.

terriblecanyons · 10.19.2009, 11:52 PM

God damnit. Just accidentally watched a youtube video on shelters that euthanize animals, now I'm bawwwwing.

Sonic Youth 37 · 10.19.2009, 11:53 PM

10.19.2009, 09:19 PM	#881
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	i know but no one has ever had so much power over me, i feel weak for once in my life __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 09:21 PM	#882
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	I think you are just intoxicated by him. Again, if I were you, I'd try and find out what he wants and tell him what you want. End all this madness....especially if it's been like this for a while. __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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10.19.2009, 09:23 PM	#883
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,564	i wouldn't push it. not yet. it's nice to torture women! no, seriously, there are 2 reasons why he might make himself scarce 1) he wants you in a bad way and doesn't want to appear needy/ wants to stay in control/ wants to make sure you don't fuck him over-- best way to spook away women is to call them 50 times a day 2) he's really an aloof asshole who fucks and runs either way, don't push it. if he's an ashole, don't throw yourself at him-- if he likes you, it's a sweet horny fight to see who loses control & drools first :P
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10.19.2009, 09:23 PM	#884
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	intoxicated is the word. completely infatuated. i'd say its been this way for about a month. !@#$%! i would love it if he called me 50 times a day. i havent been so happy in a long time. i think it must be option #1 because he's definitely NOT an asshole __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 09:26 PM	#885
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	Hmm, a month or so has been enough time to figure out what the hell is going on, I think. Going by !@#$! ideas, I'd say it's not a number one situation....unless he is just evil. If so, then he sucks, imo. __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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10.19.2009, 09:30 PM	#887
!@#$%! invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: mars attacks Posts: 42,564	also, he may fear being the rebound guy
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10.19.2009, 09:34 PM	#888
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	maybe more like 3 weeks. i will trust !@#$%!'s advice. see, we're very good friends and we have been for a long time it's just recently that we've been uh, getting it on !@#$%! knows what he's talking about, he's a scorpion too i know he's not an asshole. i'm an incredibly good judge of character and i have crazy intuition to the point of almost being psychic and i can just tell that he likes me a whole lot which is why i don't understand this behavior. i guess he's trying to control himself, i'm trying to do the same thing and i just wanna pour it all out on the fucking table but i can't because i don't wanna look like an ass. __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 09:42 PM	#890
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	i only felt like it was ok to sleep with exbf one last time because me and this one aren't 'officially' dating (plus we never got our parting hatefuck, we love each other but we are not in love with each other anymore so this was strictly sex) and i'm not sure if he's seeing other girls or what and i do feel a bit of guilt about it. but i would never ever ever do anything to fuck him over and i think he must just be being cautious until he realizes that. thanks you guys. i feel a little bit better. but I STILL WISH HE WOULD FUCKING CALL ME. ps i am 100% sure he is not up on my shenanigans. __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 09:43 PM	#891
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	I can see that. I just don't get the whole "playing games" thing in fear of like.....being the first one to cave in and tell the other how they feel, I guess? For me, I like to know what is going on, but yes, you will know when the time is right to put the chips on the table.....so, far he doesn't sound like a guy that is going to initiate the "I sweat you, babe!!" talk. Of course, I don't know the dude or his history. 3 weeks hasn't really been a long time, true. kill and destroy etc. __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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10.19.2009, 09:45 PM	#892
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	i don't understand it either but it seems to be human nature. no one wants to look weak. the irony of it is that in trying not to appear weak i am actually reinforcing my own weakness by being a PUSSY and not saying it. __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 09:56 PM	#894
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	Right. Like you said, if he's not an asshole, then he'll appreciate your affections and not think you are a cheeseball. It's not like he's going to be like, "Wait, wait. You like me? What the fuck! You make me sick! You didn't think I actually wanted to date you, did you? This is seriously fucked up, I'm leaving." __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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10.19.2009, 10:02 PM	#896
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	now that ive thought about it and heard what y'all had to say, i think he must be thinking exactly what i'm thinking and now it's just a matter of time before we're joined at the hip and making everyone sick __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 11:42 PM	#897
Satan invito al cielo Join Date: Jul 2006 Location: noo yawk Posts: 6,331	this is making me fucking miserable __________________ "I love meth." - batreleaser
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10.19.2009, 11:44 PM	#898
Sonic Youth 37 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: if there is a bright spot in the universe, the farthest point from it Posts: 9,443	Target hasn't called like they said they would and I know I passed my drug test. I need money dammit. __________________ "One: Where's the fife? and Two: Gimme the fife."
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10.19.2009, 11:52 PM	#899
terriblecanyons invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: the land where large fuzzy dice still hang proudly like testicles from rear-view mirrors Posts: 5,949	God damnit. Just accidentally watched a youtube video on shelters that euthanize animals, now I'm bawwwwing.
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10.19.2009, 11:53 PM	#900
Sonic Youth 37 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: if there is a bright spot in the universe, the farthest point from it Posts: 9,443	__________________ "One: Where's the fife? and Two: Gimme the fife."
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