SYG Costume Party 2009 - Page 5

Rob Instigator · 11.02.2009, 11:30 PM

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Originally Posted by swa(y)

psst....

it also means divorce 90 percent of the time and child support and dad being broke and mom getting everything or vice versa.

ill stick to "0" dependents.

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girlgun · 11.02.2009, 11:41 PM

it's more than a piece of paper.

notyourfiend · 11.02.2009, 11:45 PM

I don't ever intend to get married. I don't like the idea of having government sanctioned love. marriage creates another system of privileges and rewards for
those who follow societal norms. Plus, the institution of marriage has historically been a mode of trading women for things. So fuck that shit.

girlgun · 11.02.2009, 11:46 PM

it's so ridiculous that people on this board will defend fucking a fucking blow-up doll, yet people being married is stupid and outlandish.

ok.

let's talk about the married people on this board. the robot and i have been married 13 years. savage clone and his wife... 19? something like that. how about gmku? who else is married?

marriage... how uncool.

notyourfiend · 11.02.2009, 11:49 PM

I don't think that marriage is uncool. In fact, marriage seems to be a pretty "in" lifestyle choice. If you choose to get married, good for you! However, marriage is not something that I value in my life. And it is completely fair to point out that the institution of marriage has historically (and continues to be) oppressive. I personally want the freedom to be able to fall in and out of love and relationships as are healthy and fit. As person who is against marriage (not that I could even get married in the first place...unless I moved to, say, Iowa) means that I am going to have to continue to defend myself and my life style.

girlgun · 11.02.2009, 11:54 PM

the argument is fucking retarded. it's one thing to say you don't personally agree with it... that's fine. it's another to put down the whole thing.

and maybe people wouldn't have to fuck blow up dolls if they had a wife.

notyourfiend · 11.02.2009, 11:59 PM

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Originally Posted by girlgun

the argument is fucking retarded. it's one thing to say you don't personally agree with it... that's fine. it's another to put down the whole thing.

and maybe people wouldn't have to fuck blow up dolls if they had a wife.

why wouldn't i put down the institution of marriage when it has historically been extremely oppressive? i'm glad that it works for you and others on this board. i know others who are happily married. but still, marriage does mean that you benefit from heterosexual privilege. i hope you recognize that.

sexuality is about desire and fantasy. there are plenty of monogamous people who still use sex toys/sex dolls/jack off to porn and it's not because they aren't in a healthy relationship. in fact, it's healthy to be able to give yrself pleasure. i'm in a monogamous healthy relationship w the person who i assume i'll be with for a good number of years to come and i still masturbate often. i have no shame in admitting that. it's part of what makes our relationship work.if i was into sex dolls, i might masturbate with sex dolls. sex dolls are a huge turn off for me though so i dont do that.

girlgun · 11.03.2009, 12:10 AM

Fucking stupid.

notyourfiend · 11.03.2009, 12:13 AM

Nobody offended you girlgun for being married. However, you are getting on us for disagreeing with it/choosing against it. Most people in the world will wind up getting married, those of us who can't or just plain can't or won't for political/solidarity purposes are a scarce minority. I really don't think that any of what I wrote is "fucking stupid" being as there is shitloads of historical evidence to prove my point.

Dead-Air · 11.03.2009, 12:31 AM

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Originally Posted by girlgun

and maybe people wouldn't have to fuck blow up dolls if they had a wife.

have
you
got
the
#for
a
good
blowup
doll?

sorry
couldn't
resist.
broke
keyboard
&all.

girlgun · 11.03.2009, 12:46 AM

I was reiterating the argument was fucking stupid. Jesus.

My initial point was that it just seems lame that everyone has an open mind and thinks everyone can do as they choose until it comes to something traditional. I don't give a flying fuck if it's not right for someone, but it may be right for someone else. There were plenty of blanket statements up there which I mentioned, fiendgirl, you did not make. I sincerely appreciate sway's nice reply. I just think if people are going to claim to be so opened minded..then show it.

For the record. I never thought I would marry... Never planned on it. I'm married. It's great.

davenotdead · 11.03.2009, 01:39 AM

welcome to the sonic youth forums girlgun.

anything 'sacred' or 'traditional' will not get you pitchfork points.

you should probably make a thread where you make fun of the bible if you want them to respect you again

davenotdead · 11.03.2009, 02:31 AM

yippee

pbradley · 11.03.2009, 02:38 AM

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Originally Posted by davenotdead

welcome to the sonic youth forums girlgun.

anything 'sacred' or 'traditional' will not get you pitchfork points.

you should probably make a thread where you make fun of the bible if you want them to respect you again

Comments like this one make we wonder if you are making an argumentum ad populum by accusing another of reverse argumentum ad populum, or a reverse ad populum by accusing ad populum.

And then I remember that, by either case, it's complete nonsense.

davenotdead · 11.03.2009, 02:43 AM

your avatar is making me nauseated

DeadDiscoDildo · 11.03.2009, 02:48 AM

I have no idea what most of you are talking about half the time...

davenotdead · 11.03.2009, 02:51 AM

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Originally Posted by DeadDiscoDildo

I have no idea what most of you are talking about half the time...

just remember that i'm the most radical out of all of you

pbradley · 11.03.2009, 02:58 AM

It's hip to be square!

terriblecanyons · 11.03.2009, 03:02 AM

how the fuck did a costume party thread get turned into some fucking idiotic debate on marriage?

wait, I don't wanna know.

davenotdead · 11.03.2009, 03:10 AM

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Originally Posted by pbradley

It's hip to be square!

now you're catching on.

but hey, don't tell anyone. they have to find out on their own

11.02.2009, 11:41 PM	#82
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	it's more than a piece of paper.
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11.02.2009, 11:45 PM	#83
notyourfiend expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: baltimore, murderland by way of new york city Posts: 1,454	I don't ever intend to get married. I don't like the idea of having government sanctioned love. marriage creates another system of privileges and rewards for those who follow societal norms. Plus, the institution of marriage has historically been a mode of trading women for things. So fuck that shit. __________________
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11.02.2009, 11:46 PM	#84
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	it's so ridiculous that people on this board will defend fucking a fucking blow-up doll, yet people being married is stupid and outlandish. ok. let's talk about the married people on this board. the robot and i have been married 13 years. savage clone and his wife... 19? something like that. how about gmku? who else is married? marriage... how uncool.
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11.02.2009, 11:49 PM	#85
notyourfiend expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: baltimore, murderland by way of new york city Posts: 1,454	I don't think that marriage is uncool. In fact, marriage seems to be a pretty "in" lifestyle choice. If you choose to get married, good for you! However, marriage is not something that I value in my life. And it is completely fair to point out that the institution of marriage has historically (and continues to be) oppressive. I personally want the freedom to be able to fall in and out of love and relationships as are healthy and fit. As person who is against marriage (not that I could even get married in the first place...unless I moved to, say, Iowa) means that I am going to have to continue to defend myself and my life style. __________________
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11.02.2009, 11:54 PM	#86
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	the argument is fucking retarded. it's one thing to say you don't personally agree with it... that's fine. it's another to put down the whole thing. and maybe people wouldn't have to fuck blow up dolls if they had a wife.
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11.03.2009, 12:10 AM	#88
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	Fucking stupid.
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11.03.2009, 12:13 AM	#89
notyourfiend expwy. to yr skull Join Date: Jun 2009 Location: baltimore, murderland by way of new york city Posts: 1,454	Nobody offended you girlgun for being married. However, you are getting on us for disagreeing with it/choosing against it. Most people in the world will wind up getting married, those of us who can't or just plain can't or won't for political/solidarity purposes are a scarce minority. I really don't think that any of what I wrote is "fucking stupid" being as there is shitloads of historical evidence to prove my point. __________________
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11.03.2009, 12:46 AM	#91
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	I was reiterating the argument was fucking stupid. Jesus. My initial point was that it just seems lame that everyone has an open mind and thinks everyone can do as they choose until it comes to something traditional. I don't give a flying fuck if it's not right for someone, but it may be right for someone else. There were plenty of blanket statements up there which I mentioned, fiendgirl, you did not make. I sincerely appreciate sway's nice reply. I just think if people are going to claim to be so opened minded..then show it. For the record. I never thought I would marry... Never planned on it. I'm married. It's great.
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11.03.2009, 01:39 AM	#92
davenotdead invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,784	welcome to the sonic youth forums girlgun. anything 'sacred' or 'traditional' will not get you pitchfork points. you should probably make a thread where you make fun of the bible if you want them to respect you again __________________
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11.03.2009, 02:31 AM	#93
davenotdead invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,784	yippee __________________
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11.03.2009, 02:43 AM	#95
davenotdead invito al cielo Join Date: Nov 2006 Posts: 7,784	your avatar is making me nauseated __________________
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11.03.2009, 02:48 AM	#96
DeadDiscoDildo invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2008 Posts: 3,805	I have no idea what most of you are talking about half the time...
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11.03.2009, 02:58 AM	#98
pbradley invito al cielo Join Date: Apr 2007 Location: SoKo Posts: 10,621	It's hip to be square!
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11.03.2009, 03:02 AM	#99
terriblecanyons invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2008 Location: the land where large fuzzy dice still hang proudly like testicles from rear-view mirrors Posts: 5,949	how the fuck did a costume party thread get turned into some fucking idiotic debate on marriage? wait, I don't wanna know.
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