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schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:23 AM

oh, man.

if you don't really like him i think you should end it. but that's just me.

SynthethicalY · 06.27.2007, 01:25 AM

No I like him, I think I preferred him as a friend, and able to sleep with him. I don't know what to do.

schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:26 AM

i guess maybe a friends with benefits thing?

Everyneurotic · 06.27.2007, 01:26 AM

you do have a weird relationship with your ex, i mean, you're not together but you are together, that's got to be painful.

both affairs are pretty dramatic dude, i would end both but that's me.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:27 AM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom

i guess maybe a friends with benefits thing?

that always sounds nice in theory, but in practice it inevitably turns to shit as feelings develop.

SynthethicalY · 06.27.2007, 01:28 AM

I should end both I think it would be selfish of me to keep being with him if I don't have the feelings he has for me. I still think we would be better off as friends, I want to tell him this, maybe friday when I see him.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:28 AM

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Originally Posted by SynthethicalY

No I like him, I think I preferred him as a friend, and able to sleep with him. I don't know what to do.

grow some balls

but really, you should have manned up & split for a time from the old boyfriend when it was the time.

did i see this oh so clearly in my prophetic vision?

fo' sho'

schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:28 AM

true. i don't really know much about relationships so i really shouldn't be talking.

SynthethicalY · 06.27.2007, 01:30 AM

Well we both know this isn't going to last, I may move to New York next year or the year after that. We know this isn't going to last, so this is odd. We already know this, but we are together because for some odd reason.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:31 AM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom

true. i don't really know much about relationships so i really shouldn't be talking.

just some dirty old man advice: if you ever like a boy immensely but he won't give you the time of day, don't offer him to be "friends with benefits" just so you can get him. it won't work and you'll just end up hurt more. it's better to put some distance & forget. really.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:32 AM

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Originally Posted by SynthethicalY

Well we both know this isn't going to last, I may move to New York next year or the year after that. We know this isn't going to last, so this is odd. We already know this, but we are together because for some odd reason.

laziness? convenience? habit?

eh i dont meant to crap on you, just a little dose of reality. told you, you should have put some distance between you & the ex-boy, & let things cool off. the "stay friends" gimmick never, but ever, ever, works.

Everyneurotic · 06.27.2007, 01:33 AM

i don't know how you can stand that emotional limbo.

either stay with him and work your problems out or move on, at least stop grinding your feelings every day.

schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:33 AM

!@#$%!- i'm actually really tired of boys, to be honest. the good ones are difficult/gay/married and the bad ones are just that.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:34 AM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom

!@#$%!- i'm actually really tired of boys, to be honest. the good ones are difficult/gay/married and the bad ones are just that.

eh, you're awesome, you'll find one, in time. just not in a seedy bar.

Everyneurotic · 06.27.2007, 01:34 AM

!@#$%!: staying friends works when a ton of distance and time passes. still, it's weird.

SynthethicalY · 06.27.2007, 01:34 AM

!@#$%! I think it is convinience. That we are still together. In my honest opinions is working fine, but I may be wrong.

!@#$%! · 06.27.2007, 01:35 AM

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Originally Posted by SynthethicalY

!@#$%! I think it is convinience. That we are still together. In my honest opinions is working fine, but I may be wrong.

your honest opinion? please define "honesty". enlighten us.

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Originally Posted by Everyneurotic

!@#$%!: staying friends works when a ton of distance and time passes. still, it's weird.

yes yes of course. a ton of distance & time. he waited all of 5 minutes to start fucking the ex again. now as "friends". wtf??

SynthethicalY · 06.27.2007, 01:36 AM

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Originally Posted by schizophrenicroom

!@#$%!- i'm actually really tired of boys, to be honest. the good ones are difficult/gay/married and the bad ones are just that.

You will find that guy, don't worry.

!@#$%!- well to me it seems that is doing good. But I need to talk to him on where he is on an emotional level.

schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:36 AM

nah. maybe a nicely-lit bar

schizophrenicroom · 06.27.2007, 01:37 AM

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You will find that guy, don't worry.

i do have a pretty cool bf but to be honest i don't know what i want. but it's that awkward 'he's my good friend' thing..

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06.27.2007, 01:23 AM	#17181
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	oh, man. if you don't really like him i think you should end it. but that's just me. __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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06.27.2007, 01:25 AM	#17182
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	No I like him, I think I preferred him as a friend, and able to sleep with him. I don't know what to do.
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06.27.2007, 01:26 AM	#17183
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	i guess maybe a friends with benefits thing? __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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06.27.2007, 01:26 AM	#17184
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	you do have a weird relationship with your ex, i mean, you're not together but you are together, that's got to be painful. both affairs are pretty dramatic dude, i would end both but that's me. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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06.27.2007, 01:28 AM	#17186
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	I should end both I think it would be selfish of me to keep being with him if I don't have the feelings he has for me. I still think we would be better off as friends, I want to tell him this, maybe friday when I see him.
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06.27.2007, 01:28 AM	#17188
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	true. i don't really know much about relationships so i really shouldn't be talking. __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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06.27.2007, 01:30 AM	#17189
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Well we both know this isn't going to last, I may move to New York next year or the year after that. We know this isn't going to last, so this is odd. We already know this, but we are together because for some odd reason.
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06.27.2007, 01:33 AM	#17192
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	i don't know how you can stand that emotional limbo. either stay with him and work your problems out or move on, at least stop grinding your feelings every day. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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06.27.2007, 01:33 AM	#17193
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	!@#$%!- i'm actually really tired of boys, to be honest. the good ones are difficult/gay/married and the bad ones are just that. __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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06.27.2007, 01:34 AM	#17195
Everyneurotic invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Mexico Posts: 15,713	!@#$%!: staying friends works when a ton of distance and time passes. still, it's weird. __________________ Richard Clayderman found alive and still bland! Repo Man has all night! Photographic evidence of Monosodic's existance! New Kiddieriot shit after all! Never too late to share fave rex from the year before! David Keenan is a douchebag! Ron Asheton missed!
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06.27.2007, 01:34 AM	#17196
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	!@#$%! I think it is convinience. That we are still together. In my honest opinions is working fine, but I may be wrong.
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06.27.2007, 01:36 AM	#17199
schizophrenicroom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: behind you Posts: 10,807	nah. maybe a nicely-lit bar __________________ fuck i'm frustrated, freaking out something fierce, would you help me? i'm hungry and i stuffer and i startle, i struggle and i stammer til i'm up to my ears in miserable quote unquote "art"
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