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View Poll Results: red wine>sake, but, are you single or "taken"(taken=engaged,married, etc) | |||
single | 41 | 50.00% | |
taken | 22 | 26.83% | |
the fuck you care? | 11 | 13.41% | |
I'm not telling. | 8 | 9.76% | |
Voters: 82. You may not vote on this poll |
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11.16.2018, 04:11 AM | #161 |
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punk rock first kiss. that's something to remember.
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11.20.2018, 10:04 AM | #162 |
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Taken and happy.
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11.21.2018, 05:27 AM | #163 |
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single, so very fucking single these days.
I have trouble being interested in women unless i really connect w/ them on a mental level, and i tense up and become veryu introverted around strangers. i'm a bit out there |
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11.23.2018, 05:53 AM | #164 |
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Result: didn't get a first kiss, but did get to hold hands on the car trip back. Also feel bad because they spent some time in a back room (they were feeling a bit out of it) and I didn't keep them company, but we're going to hang out again soon.
(As it turns out, my ex is doing better for themselves than I am.)
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11.23.2018, 06:27 AM | #165 | |
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Remember it ain't a race
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11.23.2018, 03:29 PM | #166 | |
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I know, things come at their own time. But it was interesting to see them getting hands-on with their paramour. They tried to slowdance during 'All Star' though. Should have picked it better
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11.26.2018, 03:15 AM | #167 | |
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Seems like it didn't go that bad at all!
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11.27.2018, 04:43 PM | #168 | |
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choc e-Claire's Romantic Life Update #4:
I asked them to be in a relationship this morning. (I know, it's really cowardly to do it over text, but since we're a hundred miles away from each other and I didn't know when we'd come into contact again, I figured it was worth the risk.) After a bit of flattery and the question, they said that they didn't know (they've never been in a relationship). I offered having a few dates to try something, and they said maybe. Quote:
So we're now trying to arrange a time to hang out, probably either this weekend or next. So I guess...it didn't fail?
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11.27.2018, 05:07 PM | #169 |
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piece of advice: i wouldn't push it
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11.27.2018, 05:13 PM | #170 | |
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Yeah, I've realised that they're not as into me as I am into them. Still hurts a bit though.
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11.27.2018, 05:20 PM | #171 | |
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and things still might change in the future, if you become attractive to them in that way. but nobody ever made themselves attractive to others by "convincing" them of it. it's okay to be friendzoned. thats just life. what's not okay is pressuring a friend to give what they don't want. that way lies ruin. |
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11.27.2018, 05:26 PM | #172 | |
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sigh Yeah, you're right. I guess I should be happy with being friends with them, at least. One of my best friends this year (and the cause of more emotional angst) was a girl who I'd originally had a crush on but eventually went to just being friends, I buried it a little. Then again, I haven't talked to my ex in months - we've drifted apart, and it looks like we're staying that way. #teenangst
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11.27.2018, 05:30 PM | #173 |
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lol
this is kinda funny, but the easier you can let go the more attractive you become it's kinda tricky, but you'll learn patience, grasshopper |
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12.08.2018, 12:31 AM | #174 |
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I went over to their house today, and we cuddled while playing Grand Theft Auto.
I feel bad though since I'm worried I might have overstep, and I've texted them to say sorry and pre-emptively apologise. Also, fuck me they're hot.
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12.08.2018, 12:24 PM | #175 |
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^^ Das cute, like symbols says...don’t push it, it this is also coming from someone quite passive....
I’m still in a relationship 4 years later. Funny how these things work....we both started uhh....’seeing’ each other mostly off of physical attraction and weren’t in the moods for a serious relationship and now...we’re in he most serious relationship and have moved halfway across the country....lolwat? |
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12.08.2018, 02:27 PM | #176 |
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Update: they texted me and said it didn't feel right, so I guess that's it.
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12.08.2018, 02:36 PM | #177 | |
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Don't sweat it, you're super young and there'll be plenty of other opportunities. Just don't pester your crush, and one day - hey you never know. I've had it happen before. pro-tip: people typically want what they cant have. i'm still learning that the hard way |
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12.08.2018, 04:34 PM | #178 |
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^^^ he’s right. Don’t sweat it, don’t stress it, don’t do ANYTHING too quickly
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12.08.2018, 04:37 PM | #179 |
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Don't worry, I'm giving it a bit of time - it's nearly Christmas, so I can wish them a good one and get back to chatting a little closer.
Mostly just bummed out, that's all.
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12.08.2018, 04:39 PM | #180 |
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Somehow, I won the relationship lottery. I’m married to my best friend. She’s hot, she’s nerdy, and apparently thinks I’m attractive, even though in all honesty, I probably resemble an elderly version of Shrek.
José how yr girl got such perfect teef? She’s always smiling, like she’s honestly happy, and I would too, if I had those teefs. |
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