Crappy gaydar

Alex's Trip · 11.11.2007, 11:49 PM

Yeah, I have the lamest gaydar in the world. Synth, Porky, Hayden, other forum queers...how is yours?

I think this guy was flirting with me in a coffee shop, but I couldn't tell at all. Lol.

Oh well, I like to think he was.

avantgarde1 · 11.12.2007, 01:11 AM

i'm straight and i have superb gaydar. when i use to live in key west, one of my friends was an MC at one of the drag bars, and me him & my x-wife use to go there and watch her perform. every now and again (when i was broke or being funny), i'd take off my wedding ring and have my wife stand a few feet away, and wait for some guy to hit on me. then i'd fenagle a drink outta him, say thanks and walk over to my wife. lol, man that shit was funny. gay bars... the only place a straight man can act like a dirty slut of a woman.

Alex's Trip · 11.12.2007, 01:18 AM

Hahaha. That's funny. But it'd suck to be the dude who bought you a drink, you manipulative bastard.

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avantgarde1 · 11.12.2007, 01:45 AM

lol, yeah but they were usually good sports about it. we'd all have a laugh, then do some shots. although once there was a guy who was pissed! almost got into a fight w/ him too. he was one of those "lives in the gym" gay guys too... he was swole as fuck! thank god my buddy diffused the situation. something i learned the hard way... if yr a straight guy in a gay bar... use the womens bathroom. it's totally kool w/ the chicks, and you won't get a "peter gazer" peeking over the partition or stall. a word to the wise.

SynthethicalY · 11.12.2007, 01:59 AM

I have bumped into several occasionally. I have flirted with them, there is this guy at work who I am always flirting with, but he is an idiot. But I never take it more than that.

HaydenAsche · 11.12.2007, 09:06 AM

My gaydar is exceptional. I can spot a queer from miles away.

11.12.2007, 09:15 AM

Very good. It's not perfect because some guys simply you wouldn't tell they're gay.

krastian · 11.12.2007, 02:06 PM

It's def. really good when talking to someone face to face, but it can get a little tricky just by looking at somebody in a crowd (especially in this day in age). I know I really don't come off as THAT "gay" myself, so yeah, it can sometimes be a little tricky. The Dark Gift is different for us all.

girlgun · 11.12.2007, 05:44 PM

i really don't have very good gaydar at all unless they're obviously gay. i think straight guys are gay or gay guys are straight. just not so good.

Savage Clone · 11.12.2007, 06:15 PM

I'd say I'm right about 70% of the time.

11.13.2007, 04:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swa(y)

why do gay men feel the constant need to remind everyone that they are gay? even in the most suttle of ways.

yeah, its not that hard to tell when someone is gay these days. not usually. there are exceptions to everything.

Because we're gay. Gay, you know, like gay.

SynthethicalY · 11.13.2007, 05:15 AM

Am I gay?

krastian · 11.13.2007, 05:02 PM

Judging by the cock suck, I'd say yes.

the ikara cult · 11.13.2007, 09:22 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swa(y)

why do gay men feel the constant need to remind everyone that they are gay? even in the most suttle of ways.

yeah, its not that hard to tell when someone is gay these days. not usually. there are exceptions to everything.

They dont really. No more than idiots feel the need to remind you of how detrimental to humanity they are.

I have the most insensitive gaydar there is, i just cant tell. A while ago a female freind of mine had recieved some roses for Valentines day and i was going
"sooo who's sending you roses then!"
and she went
"Well... you know Sarah?"
and i went
".........."
".........."
"....OH!"

Alex's Trip · 11.13.2007, 11:10 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by swa(y)

why do gay men feel the constant need to remind everyone that they are gay? even in the most suttle of ways.

yeah, its not that hard to tell when someone is gay these days. not usually. there are exceptions to everything.

Why do you make broad assumptions about the motives of others on the internet?

gmku · 11.13.2007, 11:16 PM

Best way to tell, give a guy a long hug and see how hard he gets.

PAULYBEE2656 · 11.14.2007, 07:57 AM

is there such a thing as a straightdar?

MellySingsDoom · 11.14.2007, 08:53 AM

My gaydar is notoriously useless. Then again, I am useless anyway, so whadyya gunna do?

PS Hello sarramkrop. Long time no speaky. How be you?

11.14.2007, 08:59 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by MellySingsDoom

My gaydar is notoriously useless. Then again, I am useless anyway, so whadyya gunna do?

PS Hello sarramkrop. Long time no speaky. How be you?

Gay, thanks. Yourself?

MellySingsDoom · 11.14.2007, 09:07 AM

sarramkrop - Hmm, gay too, I think. But good, nonetheless.

11.11.2007, 11:49 PM	#1
Alex's Trip invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 5,608	Yeah, I have the lamest gaydar in the world. Synth, Porky, Hayden, other forum queers...how is yours? I think this guy was flirting with me in a coffee shop, but I couldn't tell at all. Lol. Oh well, I like to think he was. __________________ KALOPSIA
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11.12.2007, 01:11 AM	#2
avantgarde1 the end of the ugly Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 968	i'm straight and i have superb gaydar. when i use to live in key west, one of my friends was an MC at one of the drag bars, and me him & my x-wife use to go there and watch her perform. every now and again (when i was broke or being funny), i'd take off my wedding ring and have my wife stand a few feet away, and wait for some guy to hit on me. then i'd fenagle a drink outta him, say thanks and walk over to my wife. lol, man that shit was funny. gay bars... the only place a straight man can act like a dirty slut of a woman. __________________ aka ZEROpumpkins
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11.12.2007, 01:18 AM	#3
Alex's Trip invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 5,608	Hahaha. That's funny. But it'd suck to be the dude who bought you a drink, you manipulative bastard. : __________________ KALOPSIA
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11.12.2007, 01:45 AM	#4
avantgarde1 the end of the ugly Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Sydney, Australia Posts: 968	lol, yeah but they were usually good sports about it. we'd all have a laugh, then do some shots. although once there was a guy who was pissed! almost got into a fight w/ him too. he was one of those "lives in the gym" gay guys too... he was swole as fuck! thank god my buddy diffused the situation. something i learned the hard way... if yr a straight guy in a gay bar... use the womens bathroom. it's totally kool w/ the chicks, and you won't get a "peter gazer" peeking over the partition or stall. a word to the wise. __________________ aka ZEROpumpkins
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11.12.2007, 01:59 AM	#5
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	I have bumped into several occasionally. I have flirted with them, there is this guy at work who I am always flirting with, but he is an idiot. But I never take it more than that.
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11.12.2007, 09:06 AM	#6
HaydenAsche invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 10,755	My gaydar is exceptional. I can spot a queer from miles away. __________________ rip
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11.12.2007, 09:15 AM	#7
sarramkrop Posts: n/a	Very good. It's not perfect because some guys simply you wouldn't tell they're gay.
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11.12.2007, 02:06 PM	#8
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	It's def. really good when talking to someone face to face, but it can get a little tricky just by looking at somebody in a crowd (especially in this day in age). I know I really don't come off as THAT "gay" myself, so yeah, it can sometimes be a little tricky. The Dark Gift is different for us all. __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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11.12.2007, 05:44 PM	#9
girlgun invito al cielo Join Date: Feb 2007 Posts: 2,906	i really don't have very good gaydar at all unless they're obviously gay. i think straight guys are gay or gay guys are straight. just not so good.
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11.12.2007, 06:15 PM	#10
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,290	I'd say I'm right about 70% of the time.
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11.13.2007, 05:15 AM	#12
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Am I gay?
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11.13.2007, 05:02 PM	#13
krastian invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Baltimore Posts: 7,808	Judging by the cock suck, I'd say yes. __________________ Confusion is next and next after that is the Truth.
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11.13.2007, 11:16 PM	#16
gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	Best way to tell, give a guy a long hug and see how hard he gets. __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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11.14.2007, 07:57 AM	#17
PAULYBEE2656 invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: wexford, rep of ireland Posts: 6,930	is there such a thing as a straightdar? __________________ myspace facebook *twitter*
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11.14.2007, 08:53 AM	#18
MellySingsDoom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,662	My gaydar is notoriously useless. Then again, I am useless anyway, so whadyya gunna do? PS Hello sarramkrop. Long time no speaky. How be you? __________________ Snow on Easter Sunday - Jesus Christ in reverse.
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11.14.2007, 09:07 AM	#20
MellySingsDoom invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 8,662	sarramkrop - Hmm, gay too, I think. But good, nonetheless. __________________ Snow on Easter Sunday - Jesus Christ in reverse.
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