So i just found out

screamingskull · 12.15.2006, 05:11 PM

So i just found out that i can't afford to go to the university i wanted to go to.

I got in.

finding nobody · 12.15.2006, 05:13 PM

Money is complete bullshit. Good luck finding another school.
My deepest sympathies.

!@#$%! · 12.15.2006, 05:14 PM

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Originally Posted by screamingskull

So i just found out that i can't afford to go to the university i wanted to go to.

I got in.

eh, you can manage-- loans & loans & loans!

no, not really, but there are ways.

gotta rAn but i soogest you call that skool & aX them how 2pei. they mite be of elp.

Rob Instigator · 12.15.2006, 05:14 PM

I am sorry to hear that . shit. can you get a work study or something?

screamingskull · 12.15.2006, 05:16 PM

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I am sorry to hear that . shit. can you get a work study or something?

i dont think so, its really just thrown me, i dont really know how to handle it. Can't stop crying and being pathetic.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:17 PM

No loans or grants or anything? You wouldn't believe how many students just go to school on loans and work study and such.

(No, Clone-y, I don't want to get into it about the costs of education. I'm just saying...)

Savage Clone · 12.15.2006, 05:20 PM

I wasn't going to bring that up just to bring her down.
Jeez, I can tell when someone's genuinely upset.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:20 PM

My son was attending a very expensive private school. Absolutely no f-ing way I could send him just paying out of my own pocket. So I talked to the financial aid people, submitted the paperwork, and they split the cost, covering half with grants and qualifying us for loans for the rest. My son wasn't even that great a student in high school.

Sometimes schools will bend over backwards to help you, if they know you really want to enroll with them. They want your money, but there are ALL KINDS of ways for them to get that--not necessarily out of your own pocket.

Talk to them!

screamingskull · 12.15.2006, 05:22 PM

It would cost me $26,100.00 a year thats $104,400.00 at the end of 4 years. i would never be able to afford a house or even to have children.

Savage Clone · 12.15.2006, 05:23 PM

My mom was very resourceful in her college days. She even got a grant that was supposed to be dedicated to black women (my mom is white as can be), because it was just sitting there unclaimed and doing nothing, and the people could see she had both brains and genuine need. If you dig deep, there are an awful lot of resources available.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:31 PM

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wow..i read about yr sceheme on the news. you and yr son teamed up and gave some of the staff blowjobs (yr half of the payment) and they payed the rest.

didnt you choke on a pound of semen or something?

here I am trying to give someone (someone I admire a helluvalot more than I do you) advice that I think might help, and you do this crap. I guess this is the price we basically pay for freedom of expression in an unmonitored site, huh.

the ikara cult · 12.15.2006, 05:33 PM

Im guessing this is in the USA? You might be able to get them to let you defer and go next year. Meantime, work for a year and get ahead on yr studies, you can start ahead of everyone else, and its a great skill to learn, invaluable in my opinion. Having some kind of financial responsibility for a time really sets you up well too, My friend did just that - got into a course and deferred, then worked to amass funds for a year, and started this year in San Francisco.
So yes, ask them if you can defer entry.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:33 PM

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Originally Posted by screamingskull

It would cost me $26,100.00 a year thats $104,400.00 at the end of 4 years. i would never be able to afford a house or even to have children.

But if the school can come up with grants and scholarships and cut back some of that? I never thought my son would qualify for that kind of thing, but he basically was given half the tuition through grants and scholarships.

All I'm saying is that if this is your dream school, you should investigate thoroughly with the school, all options, before giving up.

Savage Clone · 12.15.2006, 05:37 PM

OK, that was a sweet hijack and all, but really I think maybe a maximum of three threads to spread a fight across should be observed.

Especially when things started from some relatively innocent comments made with tongue in cheek...

I suppose this is why !@#$%! is so addicted to those goddamned smileys.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:38 PM

Sorry about the interruptions, Screamingskull, but seriously, check it out before giving up on it. It does suck that education is so damned expensive in the United States.

the ikara cult · 12.15.2006, 05:40 PM

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Originally Posted by gmku

Sorry about the interruptions, Screamingskull, but seriously, check it out before giving up on it. It does suck that education is so damned expensive in the United States.

Aye and yes ask the UK end too.

Savage Clone · 12.15.2006, 05:40 PM

Doesn't screamingskull live in the UK?

I do know that student loan payments can be deferred in the USA post-graduation if you work for a nonprofit. This was the case at one time, at least.

gmku · 12.15.2006, 05:43 PM

Oh, yeah, sorry, I forgot, SS. And I know nothing about the UK system, unfortunately.

Pookie · 12.15.2006, 05:44 PM

In the UK, loan repayments could always be deferred, but I'm not sure if that's still the case.

I've been deferring mine for about 8 years now.

But when I went to university there were no course fees.

I really don't envy people going to Uni now. You're guaranteed to come out with massive debts, if you can afford to go in the first place at all.

Whatever happens screamingskull, I hope you get to do what you want in the end.

luxinterior · 12.15.2006, 05:45 PM

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It would cost me $26,100.00 a year thats $104,400.00 at the end of 4 years. i would never be able to afford a house or even to have children.

I doubt that there is a single educational institution in this country whose services are worth $26,0000 a year. I have to ask, does that price cover the amount of alcohol you will inevitably consume while you're there? If so, I take back what I just said--this place sounds like a great deal.

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finding nobody invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Florida Posts: 7,275	Money is complete bullshit. Good luck finding another school. My deepest sympathies.
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Rob Instigator invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: In the land of the Instigator Posts: 27,959	I am sorry to hear that . shit. can you get a work study or something? __________________ RXTT's Intellectual Journey - my new blog where I talk about all the books I read.
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12.15.2006, 05:17 PM	#6
gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	No loans or grants or anything? You wouldn't believe how many students just go to school on loans and work study and such. (No, Clone-y, I don't want to get into it about the costs of education. I'm just saying...) __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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12.15.2006, 05:20 PM	#7
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,289	I wasn't going to bring that up just to bring her down. Jeez, I can tell when someone's genuinely upset.
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12.15.2006, 05:22 PM	#9
screamingskull invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: england Posts: 5,580	It would cost me $26,100.00 a year thats $104,400.00 at the end of 4 years. i would never be able to afford a house or even to have children.
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12.15.2006, 05:23 PM	#10
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,289	My mom was very resourceful in her college days. She even got a grant that was supposed to be dedicated to black women (my mom is white as can be), because it was just sitting there unclaimed and doing nothing, and the people could see she had both brains and genuine need. If you dig deep, there are an awful lot of resources available.
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12.15.2006, 05:33 PM	#12
the ikara cult invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: London sink Posts: 4,576	Im guessing this is in the USA? You might be able to get them to let you defer and go next year. Meantime, work for a year and get ahead on yr studies, you can start ahead of everyone else, and its a great skill to learn, invaluable in my opinion. Having some kind of financial responsibility for a time really sets you up well too, My friend did just that - got into a course and deferred, then worked to amass funds for a year, and started this year in San Francisco. So yes, ask them if you can defer entry.
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12.15.2006, 05:37 PM	#14
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,289	OK, that was a sweet hijack and all, but really I think maybe a maximum of three threads to spread a fight across should be observed. Especially when things started from some relatively innocent comments made with tongue in cheek... I suppose this is why !@#$%! is so addicted to those goddamned smileys.
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12.15.2006, 05:38 PM	#15
gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	Sorry about the interruptions, Screamingskull, but seriously, check it out before giving up on it. It does suck that education is so damned expensive in the United States. __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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12.15.2006, 05:40 PM	#17
Savage Clone invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 11,289	Doesn't screamingskull live in the UK? I do know that student loan payments can be deferred in the USA post-graduation if you work for a nonprofit. This was the case at one time, at least.
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12.15.2006, 05:43 PM	#18
gmku invito al cielo Join Date: May 2006 Location: Oxford, England Posts: 15,225	Oh, yeah, sorry, I forgot, SS. And I know nothing about the UK system, unfortunately. __________________ Ever notice how this place just basically, well, sucks.
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12.15.2006, 05:44 PM	#19
Pookie invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Posts: 9,877	In the UK, loan repayments could always be deferred, but I'm not sure if that's still the case. I've been deferring mine for about 8 years now. But when I went to university there were no course fees. I really don't envy people going to Uni now. You're guaranteed to come out with massive debts, if you can afford to go in the first place at all. Whatever happens screamingskull, I hope you get to do what you want in the end.
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