In a perfect world - Page 2

!@#$%! · 10.26.2007, 10:47 AM

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Originally Posted by floatingslowly

in a perfect world, I wish that I had been born right-handed.

left-handed people have to deal with all kinds of shit that you "norms" don't.

!@#!$%!@: just because the guy might not understand gay people so well, and might not be acting appropriate to Alex's feelings, doesn't make him a uneducated yahoo. ignorance does not always spawn from lack of intelligence.

I think it really says a lot that he's trying to talk to his son about it (although he might not know how). too many gay people I've known get completely disowned. he should count his blessings.

PS: leave video games out of this ya' nazi.

im not saying alex's dad is a yahoo (he is not), im saying sway's example, who is his "standard", is a cavern yahoo from macon ga, and shouldnt be compared to alex's dad.

yes i know, i know nobody reads in the internet, me included

gtg, talk later.

floatingslowly · 10.26.2007, 10:56 AM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

im not saying alex's dad is a yahoo (he is not), im saying sway's example, who is his "standard", is a cavern yahoo from macon ga, and shouldnt be compared to alex's dad.

yes i know, i know nobody reads in the internet, me included

gtg, talk later.

I read yr post, I just didn't read (all of) swa(y)s.

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Originally Posted by Savage Clone

Aw, relax.
All that means is that you've got Satan's stamp of approval.
You can get all kinds of street cred with that shit.

she loves me yeah yeah yeah.

cryptowonderdruginvogue · 10.26.2007, 11:03 AM

In a perfect world I wouldn't be drinking right now.

Kylerobert · 10.26.2007, 11:17 AM

I think you need to chill out.. Your dad obviously is taken back by the fact that you're gay and is asking you questions because he is curious and it's different to him. You should be thankful your dad didn't disown you because thats unfortunately what happens to many people.

And 100% honesty right here: I wish my son won't be gay as well. I totally accept homosexuality but I would be scared of my son being ridiculed, picked on, etc. But if he is, I will support,protect, and accept him all the way.
So maybe your dad is going through that as well. All I know is that you need to chill, give your father time, and quit the teen agnst highschool drama because there are gonna be things worse then this down the road.

ALIEN ANAL · 10.26.2007, 11:17 AM

in a perfect world this high wouldnt wear off soon

SynthethicalY · 10.26.2007, 11:34 AM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

It is only because I listen to Wainwright.

I could never get to him, he seems like a bore.

Anyways, just give it time. I haven't told my family for the same reasons. They butt in way too much into my personal life as it is, and I don't need more of it. I will tell them eventually, maybe when my bro comes, but I am coming to peace that my personal life is mine not theirs. I think this is what is making you uncomfortable, because you want your own privacy. But you are almost out so hang in there.

Alex's Trip · 10.26.2007, 11:38 AM

I want this thread to go away now.

I shouldn't have started it.

floatingslowly · 10.26.2007, 11:51 AM

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Originally Posted by swa(y)

dude...relax man. its just a thread.

fuck you and yr agreeable posts!

Alex's Trip · 10.26.2007, 11:58 AM

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Originally Posted by swa(y)

and its kinda unfair that ya;d call him an asshole for saying "yeah, i wish you werent gay" when YOU asked him the question. atleast hes a cool enough dad to give ya an honest answer...and opposed to a dad that pretended as if he didnt care about the fact that you were gay, when all actuality he did.

I only asked him because I thought he'd shut the fuck up and leave me alone. He kept bothering me, and I made it clear I wanted him to leave, but he wouldn't.

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Originally Posted by swa(y)

dude...relax man. its just a thread.

I shouldn't be posting all my personal shitty stupid drama on line. This will be the last time, I swear.

!@#$%! · 10.26.2007, 01:09 PM

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Originally Posted by Kylerobert

And 100% honesty right here: I wish my son won't be gay as well. I totally accept homosexuality but I would be scared of my son being ridiculed, picked on, etc. But if he is, I will support,protect, and accept him all the way.
So maybe your dad is going through that as well. All I know is that you need to chill, give your father time, and quit the teen agnst highschool drama because there are gonna be things worse then this down the road.

yeah but 100% honest, if your son IS gay and you are scared for him then you need to man up and give him your support, because he's going to need it.

his dad basically said "in an ideal world, you would be a different person", and in doing that, he rejected his son. maybe he doesn't realize this, maybe that wasn't his intention, but that was the meaning of his words. and maybe he'll realize down the line the impact of what he said and make up for it.

in the meantime, i think it's only human to react emotionally to such a fundamental rejection by the people who are supposed to love you and take care of you. don't belittle his "teen angst", it's what he has to deal with right now, and it's stupid to suggest otherwise. he'll have to work things out with his dad as a part of growing up and becoming who he is. this is not some bullshit problem.

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

I only asked him because I thought he'd shut the fuck up and leave me alone. He kept bothering me, and I made it clear I wanted him to leave, but he wouldn't.I shouldn't be posting all my personal shitty stupid drama on line. This will be the last time, I swear.

sorry for my part in this man. yes it's kinda risky to discuss personal matters with an anonymous interweb audience. but if you have to post this shit online maybe you don't have anybody else to talk about it, and the thing is, you need to have someone to talk about it with. competent friends, a support group, a counselor, whatever.

rather than beat yourself up for your temporary indiscretion, consider it a sign that you need to make some changes-- i.e. find some support for the issues you're struggling with. silence=death, etc. in any case, embarrassments aside, i hope venting did you some good (bottled up emotions are toxic), and that some of what you read here was somehow useful.

h8kurdt · 10.26.2007, 01:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Alex's Trip

.I shouldn't be posting all my personal shitty stupid drama on line. This will be the last time, I swear.

Hey man, does posting on here help you? If so then don't feel bad about posting this stuff. I have a love/hate relationship with this forum but there is one hting I can say and that is that the majority of people on here are mature and damned cool people. There are people who are willing to talk about things on here and help out.

*sniff* sorry if that reads as corny as it does on here.

Kylerobert · 10.26.2007, 01:26 PM

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Originally Posted by !@#$%!

yeah but 100% honest, if your son IS gay and you are scared for him then you need to man up and give him your support, because he's going to need it.

Did you read the next sentence?

Rob Instigator · 10.26.2007, 01:27 PM

the more gay men the more straight ladies there are to go around!

SynthethicalY · 10.26.2007, 01:29 PM

Don't worry rob, one of these days i will come out as straight. I am awaiting for a vaccine to do that.

screamingskull · 10.26.2007, 01:55 PM

hands up, who else has a disappointing man for a father.

I DO!

h8kurdt · 10.26.2007, 07:06 PM

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Originally Posted by screamingskull

hands up, who else has a disappointing man for a father.

I DO!

Really?

Parents piss me off sometimes but I love them *sappy*

SynthethicalY · 10.27.2007, 01:40 AM

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Originally Posted by screamingskull

hands up, who else has a disappointing man for a father.

I DO!

Sorry I can't participate, my father is my hero. He quit drinking because he did not want us to grow up in that environment. He was also the only one that gave me the love of reading. Sorry my father rules.

ALIEN ANAL · 10.27.2007, 08:58 AM

i wouldnt of just knockd my bottle of beer onto the laptop
i think everything is ok though. i acted quick and nobody seen

edit: ok so i just heard a sizzling sort of sound..uh oh.

Cantankerous · 10.27.2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by screamingskull

hands up, who else has a disappointing man for a father.

I DO!

yo.

screamingskull · 10.27.2007, 11:46 AM

mine is a constant disappointment. I can live with that though.

It's a "I really don't like him, but i love him" situation.

10.26.2007, 11:03 AM	#23
cryptowonderdruginvogue invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: the party Posts: 10,281	In a perfect world I wouldn't be drinking right now.
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10.26.2007, 11:17 AM	#24
Kylerobert bad moon rising Join Date: Mar 2006 Posts: 224	I think you need to chill out.. Your dad obviously is taken back by the fact that you're gay and is asking you questions because he is curious and it's different to him. You should be thankful your dad didn't disown you because thats unfortunately what happens to many people. And 100% honesty right here: I wish my son won't be gay as well. I totally accept homosexuality but I would be scared of my son being ridiculed, picked on, etc. But if he is, I will support,protect, and accept him all the way. So maybe your dad is going through that as well. All I know is that you need to chill, give your father time, and quit the teen agnst highschool drama because there are gonna be things worse then this down the road.
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10.26.2007, 11:17 AM	#25
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10.26.2007, 11:38 AM	#27
Alex's Trip invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Southern California Posts: 5,608	I want this thread to go away now. I shouldn't have started it. __________________ KALOPSIA
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10.26.2007, 01:27 PM	#33
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10.26.2007, 01:29 PM	#34
SynthethicalY invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Posts: 7,408	Don't worry rob, one of these days i will come out as straight. I am awaiting for a vaccine to do that.
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10.26.2007, 01:55 PM	#35
screamingskull invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: england Posts: 5,580	hands up, who else has a disappointing man for a father. I DO!
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10.27.2007, 08:58 AM	#38
ALIEN ANAL invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2006 Location: Australia Posts: 5,461	i wouldnt of just knockd my bottle of beer onto the laptop i think everything is ok though. i acted quick and nobody seen edit: ok so i just heard a sizzling sort of sound..uh oh. __________________ www.instagram.com/alienanal
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10.27.2007, 11:46 AM	#40
screamingskull invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: england Posts: 5,580	mine is a constant disappointment. I can live with that though. It's a "I really don't like him, but i love him" situation.
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