this chick...

m1rr0r dash · 04.13.2008, 02:17 AM

i just recently got back in touch with a very close friend i haven't talked to at all in about 3 years. all through college she was my closest female friend. we lived together as roomates for 3 years and worked in the same office for 2 years. a very long time ago, slightly drunk, she proposed to me but i was engaged to another woman at the time (a fact that she well knew and still threw herself at me...) or i would have slept with her then and there. i have spoken to her on the phone three times in the last week, and she tells me that among other things...

a) recently she's been very lonely
b) her last 2 boyfriends share my first name

....is there something going on here, or is this just a coincidence?

davenotdead · 04.13.2008, 02:20 AM

old college friends/roomates/coworkers are the darndest things... i will probably never figure out these things

ZEROpumpkins · 04.13.2008, 02:25 AM

In my professional advice:
Hit that, playa.

✌➬ · 04.13.2008, 02:34 AM

I would stay away from her. Tell the bitch to move on.

✌➬ · 04.13.2008, 02:37 AM

Mirror dash is only sleeping with me and my Boyfriend.

m1rr0r dash · 04.13.2008, 02:47 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kegmama

She wants you. Git-r-done stud.

...i totally would, but she lives an 8 hour plane ride away...

in three weeks she will be a 5 hour car ride away... i have a feeling my phone bill next month will be horrendous.

Norma J · 04.13.2008, 02:48 AM

well, acouple of things:

Do you genuinely like her and its not just convenience?
Is she crazy/loopy?
Do you think your life would be the better if you pair become 'lovers'?
(and most importantly) are you single? and is she? (I don't like me adulterators)

✌➬ · 04.13.2008, 02:48 AM

I know kegmama, but what can a girl do.

ZEROpumpkins · 04.13.2008, 02:50 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by m1rr0r dash

...i totally would, but she lives an 8 hour plane ride away...

in three weeks she will be a 5 hour car ride away... i have a feeling my phone bill next month will be horrendous.

But is it worth it for a 2 hour lady ride? (That's right, 2 fuckin' hours!)

m1rr0r dash · 04.13.2008, 02:51 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norma J

well, acouple of things:

Do you genuinely like her and its not just convenience?

yes, absolutely. ten years ago i was debating ditching my fiance to get with this woman.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norma J

Is she crazy/loopy?

YES. 160% loopy. but so am i. part of the attraction.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norma J

Do you think your life would be the better if you pair become 'lovers'?

YES.

Quote:

Originally Posted by Norma J

(and most importantly) are you single? and is she? (I don't like me adulterators)

as far as i know, yes.

Norma J · 04.13.2008, 02:53 AM

Well I don't see any reason to not go ahead with such love.

You've got my blessing

ZEROpumpkins · 04.13.2008, 02:54 AM

Norma J · 04.13.2008, 02:55 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

Pics

or it didn't happen?

ZEROpumpkins · 04.13.2008, 02:58 AM

I just wanna get an idea of how hot she is.

m1rr0r dash · 04.13.2008, 03:05 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ZEROpumpkins

Pics

ok... i'm only posting this cause i'm drunk.

✌➬ · 04.13.2008, 03:07 AM

OMG I know her. I seriously do.

J/K.

Norma J · 04.13.2008, 03:10 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Kegmama

It sounds like the feelings are there and you have maintained a long friendship and established enough of a past relationship that there is no reason you should not try to pursue things further. I say go for her my friend. Generally speaking, ladies who say they are 'lonely' is code word for 'horny'.

Ohhhhhh, I know alot of lonely girls. Seems I've been missing out. haha.

_slavo_ · 04.13.2008, 03:11 AM

Very nice, mirror dash, go for it, you'll see how it turns out.

Dead-Air · 04.13.2008, 03:29 AM

You've made yourself out to be a pretty lonely guy in recent times, so you should probably go for it. I hear this little devil's advocate in me saying, "Proceed with caution", however. Your initial description seemed to bring the loopy/crazy thing a bit more to the forefront, and I've had some regrets in my day on that front. But we all know what the Butthole Surfers say about regret...

So just be safe, except for where it's necessary to throw it to the wind.

m1rr0r dash · 04.13.2008, 04:45 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Dead-Air

Your initial description seemed to bring the loopy/crazy thing a bit more to the forefront...

i know... that's the thing. i'm a pretty head-in-the-clouds type guy... and i seriously need a woman with both feet firmly on the ground to keep things balanced.

among our friends, this woman's name is synonymous with the word "loopy."

on the other hand, my ex-wife was only 0.0000002% loopy, and that didn't work out so well.

04.13.2008, 02:17 AM	#1
m1rr0r dash invito al cielo Join Date: Oct 2007 Location: atari Posts: 2,228	i just recently got back in touch with a very close friend i haven't talked to at all in about 3 years. all through college she was my closest female friend. we lived together as roomates for 3 years and worked in the same office for 2 years. a very long time ago, slightly drunk, she proposed to me but i was engaged to another woman at the time (a fact that she well knew and still threw herself at me...) or i would have slept with her then and there. i have spoken to her on the phone three times in the last week, and she tells me that among other things... a) recently she's been very lonely b) her last 2 boyfriends share my first name ....is there something going on here, or is this just a coincidence? __________________
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Norma J invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Orstralia Posts: 4,917	well, acouple of things: Do you genuinely like her and its not just convenience? Is she crazy/loopy? Do you think your life would be the better if you pair become 'lovers'? (and most importantly) are you single? and is she? (I don't like me adulterators) __________________ I want girls with new-wave hair-doos
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Norma J invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Orstralia Posts: 4,917	Well I don't see any reason to not go ahead with such love. You've got my blessing __________________ I want girls with new-wave hair-doos
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ZEROpumpkins invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 6,157	Pics __________________
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ZEROpumpkins invito al cielo Join Date: Jun 2006 Location: Sydney Posts: 6,157	I just wanna get an idea of how hot she is. __________________
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04.13.2008, 03:07 AM	#16
✌➬ invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2007 Location: ιλ Posts: 5,754	OMG I know her. I seriously do. J/K. __________________ We Kill Homosexuals!!!
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_slavo_ invito al cielo Join Date: Mar 2006 Location: Ðîññèÿ Posts: 10,912	Very nice, mirror dash, go for it, you'll see how it turns out. __________________ you're the boy that can enjoy invisibility
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04.13.2008, 03:29 AM	#19
Dead-Air invito al cielo Join Date: Dec 2006 Location: Portland OR Posts: 4,300	You've made yourself out to be a pretty lonely guy in recent times, so you should probably go for it. I hear this little devil's advocate in me saying, "Proceed with caution", however. Your initial description seemed to bring the loopy/crazy thing a bit more to the forefront, and I've had some regrets in my day on that front. But we all know what the Butthole Surfers say about regret... So just be safe, except for where it's necessary to throw it to the wind. __________________ FuckBook; My Band; My Radio Show; My Flickr Page; Science Fiction Message Board
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